Three writers reflect on goals, habits, and a new year of blogging.
The new year is when you revisit your previous year’s resolutions (as photographer Ming Thein has done), set new goals, or just do whatever you want. This week, I’ve read a number of posts on how bloggers plan to tackle 2016, and the honesty in each is refreshing. Here are three:
“The Things I Carry from 2015 and My One Word for 2016”
Freelance writer and teacher Lily at Such Small Hands begins this post beautifully:
I lived a hundred different lives in 2015. The adventurous expat, the patient teacher, the homesick little girl, the intrepid world traveler, the anxiety-ridden dependent, the supportive wife, the optimistic partner, the heartbroken friend. I have felt a hundred incongruous emotions — hopeful and discouraged, excited and apathetic, inspired and utterly disengaged, generous and self-protective, joyful and bitterly sad. I’ve traveled through 7 countries and made a 6,000 mile move. Each separate life and identity is self-contained like a square on a quilt, inextricably connected to the whole and meaningless without it.
There are many ways that Lily would like to change, but she’s too overwhelmed to know where to begin. Instead of a traditional list of resolutions, she’s adopted the “One Word” approach:
Last year I abandoned my list of resolutions in favor of just One Word. The idea of One Word is to get rid of your list and to choose a single word to focus on for a whole year. “One word that sums up who you want to be and how you want to live.”
In 2015, I chose the word “Wholehearted.” It was a big word that encompassed an entire way of looking at the world. I’m not finished with wholeheartedness — becoming wholehearted is a lifelong journey — but I have chosen a new word to represent 2016. My word is Mindfulness.
I appreciate Lily’s musings on being more present in her life, and the focus on one word throughout the year.
“The Year of the Ambivalent Blogger”
At The Green Study, Michelle feels both optimism and fatigue from blogging and writing online. In her fifth year of blogging, she’s revisited some of her past posts:
This blog has, in some ways, served as a journal about the ups and downs of working towards personal goals. The hardest thing to accept is that I move at a glacial pace in terms of development. There is movement, but it is only discernible over a long span of time. Perhaps this is what I fear most about death — that I’ll be too slow to accomplish the things I would like to and it will be too late. . . .
I still hope that I’ll become a published writer, that I will continue my pursuit of knowledge, that I’ll look as strong as I feel, that my heart can open a little more.
Later, she asks: “how do I spend my time this year?” With no clear answer, she writes:
I look to the reasons why I like blogging — meeting other writers, sharing a laugh, connecting with people around the world and reading things that teach me or piss me off, but make me think. Knowing that what I do here really doesn’t matter, yet knowing that if I spend time doing it, it needs to matter to me, is a delicate balance.
I personally am no stranger to blogging ambivalence, so I appreciate Michelle’s candor and perspective.
“Weekend Edition: A Writer’s New Year”
At Live to Write — Write to Live, Jamie talks about the big goals that we set but sometimes don’t achieve:
Each year, I stride into January with Big Dreams and High Hopes. A small voice in my head cheers the mantra, “This is the year! This is the year!” I can’t help but be swept up in the exhilarating annual revel of redemption and expectation. After all, who doesn’t love a second chance? For as long as I can remember, I have spent the end of December contemplating the same two creative/professional New Year’s goals: writing (and eventually publishing) fiction and developing a new business around my love of writing/reading/story/creativity (vs. around the marketing/copywriting that is my current bread-and-butter).
And, for as long as I can remember, I have so far “failed” to accomplish either of these two goals.
I love what she says later in her post — it’s not about then and now, or 2015 and 2016. Perhaps we don’t need to wipe the slate clean, as we tend to do each January:
Processing my New Year this way — looking both backward and forward, layering my hopes and plans for the New Year on top of the successes and missteps of the old one — forces me to take a longer view of things — to look at the “old” year and the new one not as distinct entities that must be judged against each other, but as interwoven pieces of an unbroken continuum.
Likewise, I no longer feel the need to reinvent myself on January first. Like my life and my creative journey, I am not a series of annual iterations. There is no 2015 Jamie vs. a 2016 Jamie. There’s just me.
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Looking forward to what this year brings, both in the world of blogging and life 🙂
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2016 will be good 🙂
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love mindfullness
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Wishing 2016 to be awesome. And appreciate the perspective!
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Definitely looking forward to what 2016 will bring 🙂
Love//Kristy ww
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Wholehearted is very good. Like it!
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What can I do if my blog deosn’t get seen so much without posting in fb groups (from which I am banned for a few days)?
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You can tag your posts, so they’ll appear in the appropriate tag pages in the Reader. More info here: https://wordpress.com/dailypost/2015/02/12/tagging-shelf-life/
You can also use Publicize to share your posts to other networks (aside from Facebook). More info here: https://wordpress.com/support/publicize/
You can also build engagement and a readership naturally by reading and commenting on posts on blogs you’re interested in.
All that said, growing a readership and gaining traffic takes time!
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All the very best year for this year guys!! May we all do our best and surprise ourselves in the process….
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2016 is going to be a great year blogging wise and life wise. Claiming that.
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Love it!!
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Great post! Looking forward to see what 2016 brings!
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Same! Hope it’s a good one!!
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Great post! Well done!
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finally replacing my keyboard so i will be blogging again soon
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I think honesty is important when looking at the year ahead. It’s easy to get carried away setting goals for the way we think we ‘should’ be, how much we ‘should’ blog, what behaviours we ‘should’ show etc. I like the one word idea though, easy to make small steps towards, and that word can encompass so much, so many goals. Lovely post, thank you.
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Thanks, Cheri, for sharing my New Year post. 🙂 A pleasure to be included in your wrap up. Hope you have a great 2016!
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I enjoyed your post. This part reminded me why I love doing what I do:
On contemplative days, I wonder if the things I do each day are of value at all, while the world of blogging sometimes feels impersonal because I stare at a screen most of the day. But your words reminded me that there are indeed wonderful and meaningful small moments here, on this platform we publish on and love.
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Inspiring post with inspiring bloggers. I like each one of them. They are worth reading and their thoughts are really something to ponder upon. Thanks for sharing.
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Blogging ambivalence. So that’s what it’s called. Xx
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2016! Wow! Goodness, it’s already 2016!
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I have just started up my blog and wondered how you get views and comments on them x
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Do browse the posts and resources we’ve published on this blog, especially in the “beginner” category: https://wordpress.com/dailypost/category/beginner/
You’ll find a lot of info there on getting started.
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Excellent! I plan my blogging year and announce the schedule at the end of December – it keeps me focused and on target. http://mandyevebarnett.com/2015/12/31/schedule-for-2016-blog-posts/
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Each one of the posts you referenced here reflects an experience I have had this year. Nice to know I wasn’t alone. It is encouraging to hear from other writers about their struggles and know that you can move forward. I am excited about 2016 and looking forward to coming out in my blogging a lot more.
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I hope 2016 is gonna be everyone’s year! ☺️
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2016!…here comes awesomeness
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2016 is already amazing and since I’m a major newbie to blogging, even better. Thank you for a wonderful article – moving forward!
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2016 brought me an updated about page! https://whenithoughtiwasfat.wordpress.com/about/
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This is my first year of blogging !
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This is my first year of blogging too! I hope that your blog does well 🙂
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Same here. 🙂
All the best for a new and thrilling adventure on wordpress.
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me too! 😀
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There certainly are a lot of us new to blogging. I’m trying to keep up with Blogging 101, but still have a lot to learn. Good luck, all you newbies.
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Awesome! A brand new year full of mystery and excitement, new challenges we must face and trials to overcome. I wish you all the best and hope you enjoy 2016!
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@016 is going to be a goood year!
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2016 not @016. That was a typo 🙂
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2016 is a blogging year for me. I guess better late than never… 🙂 good insights for 2016!
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how long have you been blogging? And what is the name of your blog?
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I just started. my blog: travelcliquetravelwithme.wordpress.com
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omg your blog is fascinating!! The pictures taken are exquisite. i will be looking forward to more blog posts from you!!
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thank you so much for the support!
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you’re welcome 🙂
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HI i literally just created my own “blog” and i am so confused pls help !!! someone .
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You’ll find some resources in the “beginner” category: https://wordpress.com/dailypost/category/beginner/
You can also look to Learn WordPress for tips on getting started:
https://learn.wordpress.com/
Our weekly Community Pool posts are spaces you can ask questions and interact with other bloggers, too. Here’s the most recent one:
https://wordpress.com/dailypost/2016/01/04/community-pool-147
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thank you so much
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Hi. It is really easy and depends what you really like and what you will be blogging about. You can choose free themes in WordPress. You can also check their tutorials and its all available on their site. It is always a trial and error for the first time and it’s best for you to start just like what I did. Happy blogging!
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These are such accomplished writers, and I just chat. My one word for 2016 should emulate them: accomplish. Wish me luck.
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