A vibrant blog with active commenters takes more than “If you write it, they will come.” Take the time to create a blog that’s ripe for comments, and your fans will find you.
Blogging is 50% self-expression, 50% community — bloggers who don’t want to connect with others are few and far between, and most of us get a little frisson of excitement every time we’re notified that one of our posts has moved someone enough to leave a comment.
If your comment section is populated mainly by tumbleweeds, never fear! Try one (or all) of these to up the odds of starting a conversation with your readers:
- Have an opinion. Opinions are the lifeblood of blogs — your unique perspective gets us reading, and reacting to that perspective gets us commenting. You may want to appeal to the widest audience by keeping your blog blandly balanced, but you’ll miss out on the thing that makes blogs compelling: point of view. Without a point of view, you won’t get negative comments… but you won’t get positive ones, either. (Worried about being too blunt? We’ve got some tips that’ll help.)
- Share a personal story. We read blogs because we get glimpses into the minds and lives of the people behind those blogs. When you’re open about your life, it creates a welcoming atmosphere for readers to open up, too. Humans are storytellers; we love sharing and comparing our experiences. Get more personal in your posts, and your readers will start doing the same in your comments.
- Link to and quote others. Can blogs have two lifebloods? Let’s say they can: if opinions are one, links are the other. The internet without links is like a road with no intersections; blogs thrive on interconnection. Link to other posts, or quote other bloggers. The person you link to will likely pay you a visit to say thanks or expand the discussion, and they might just tell their own readers about you, too.
- Ask a question. We don’t just love reading others’ perspectives, we love sharing ours. Your readers will eventually get comfortable engaging with you via comments, but you can give them a gentle nudge by asking them questions. Stay away from vague questions like, “What do you think?” and try asking something specific and direct — solicit readers’ stories, and watch your comments section grow as people react to you and to other commenters.
- Leave comments. The best way to encourage people to engage with you? Engage with them. Read others’ blogs, and leave the bloggers real comments. Say “Thanks!” or “Great post!”, but then go further and leave something substantive; be specific about what you enjoyed, ask a question, or offer a counterpoint. If reading and commenting isn’t already part of your blogging routine, work in small chunks of “engagement time” each week — call it an investment in your blog.
Once you’ve got some conversation going, make sure you nurture it. Take time to respond, prune out irrelevant or offensive comments, encourage commenters to engage with one another, and show your readers that you’re really listening by grappling with their ideas in future posts.
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This, in itself, is a great post.
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It really is! I’ve been investing more time in reading other people’s blog and it’s starting to pay off. 🙂
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Thank you, all the best to you too! 🙂
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It does pay off if you read other people’s blogs because I have just followed your blog and liked a post there right now.
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Thank you! I just checked your blog out and I think it’s very interesting! Following you too! 🙂
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Ur rit dear
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Great post. I feel we need to connect with each other
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Thank you for this, it is very helpful. I myself struggle with commenting and do not comment as much as I should, which is often reflected on my posts, so this is a good kick in the butt to get out there and say something.
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Couldn’t agree more with linking to others and actively commenting on great posts. Thanks for this.
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Engaging with readers is a wild and wonderful ride for the lonely writer. You said it all.
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Its good to be opinionated but never be so closed that you are not open to new opinions ! 🙂
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Thank you for this great post. Enjoy reading it.
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Thank you for this information. I will continue engaging more often!
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I think it is a truly great post!!!!
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I will also add that persistently clicking “like” without commenting is not engaging. Some people trawl through everything clicking like on every post. This is not a good way to engage!
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I agree with you. If someone likes the post so much why can they not say why they like it. Its more like a pity hug, the intention is probably noble, but something doesn’t ring true.
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Or maybe sometimes it’s just linked to our way of living nowadays… We are consumers. Maybe people don’t allow enough time to what they are seeing or reading…
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I second that! Last week I had No views on my blog but I had 9 likes on one post!
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I have switched them off so though people can like my posts, they don’t show up on the blog. It is annoying when a blog with no hits can have so many likes and it’s quite amusing when it’s 2000 words long and only went up five minutes ago! You know they could not have read it.
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Yeah I agree. It’s horrible when you put time into a post for it to just get scanned in the reader
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I had been suspecting this for a while and it makes me sad to know now that it is true. However, I feel grateful to have a few regular readers who really do keep up with my work and leave comments sometimes. I’ve learnt to value the quality of this feedback, rather than the quantity.
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Me too. I first raised the issue several years ago. I refer to such people as “Like Spammers”
Nearly three years ago now and nothing has changed.
http://sweattearsanddigitalink.com/2012/07/10/like-spamming/
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I thoroughly agree with you. I wouldn’t mind lesser “likes” as long as I am sure that the readers have at least bothered to read my post. However, it makes me wonder why there will be “like” spammers in the first place. Spam comments or leaving comments to plug your blog without even making any commentary on the post is something I understand. They’re doing it to gain visibility. But, who will care if you only like a post? Only the author of the blog might consider it, as I try to do with my readers. Is that enough to go through this pointless exercise?
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For me, no, because I don’t see “liking” as a form of engagement. If somebody has written a 2000 word post and I read all of it, I would feel compelled to write a comment to show how much I appreciate their efforts. A “like” tells me nothing.
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I do agree. First I just wanted to like to say it, but I realized I would prove the opposite 😉
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Likes are very much the “hits” in a ballpark. We think they are great. Oh, but comments… well, those my friends are “a hit out of the ballpark.” Fabulous grand slams!
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Behind Me – dips Eternity- Emily Dickinson, Final Harvest. It’s comforting to hold up in a room and it’s also fun to go and talk with others.
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Positive, healthy action rebounds in positive interaction.As a new blogger myself, I’ve narrated personal stories and commented on other’s blogs, while taking cues and ideas from them. A great way to connect. Thank you WordPress!
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LOOKS LIKE A WONDERFUL POST TO ME!!!!!!
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Love it! So true! I’m only just benefiting from these techniques after event making the change to being more engaging and I’ve benefited tremendously from it!
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Until recently I rarely commented on posts, then I decided to set aside a day just to enjoy the works of all the other poets on wordpress, well worth it and I’ve been trying to engage with as many people as I can, though I’ve cut down on it for exam revision at this stage
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I’ve tried this also, setting aside time to read the blogs I follow. It has also led to discovering some other great blogs 🙂
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Just when I was wandering how to make more people have a look on my page… Thanks !!! 🙂
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So very true! I love reading other blogs and leaving comments. We are a community and it is fun to chat with the other people in our community. 🙂
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You’re right, some of the best material I have read lately have been the blogs of fellow WordPressers. And the feedback on comments has actually been great. I think people with the greatest followings value the interaction and respond to comments.
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Exactly!
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i totally agree with your advice, its really helpful
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Yeah its so true
Writing is complete only when your readers like it. Reader’s opinion give a great sense of satisfaction.
Thank you
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I think I am too much of the top half and too little of the bottom part. All I have to do is balance it I hear you say. Easier said than done. I will try to do it anyway. Where to start…
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I think commenting is really an art form. I’m terrible at it although I’m working on getting better. So often, my comment is just generally lavish praise – mostly because so much of what I read really is terrific. I’m trying to dig deeper and be more specific about what worked in a piece. Commenters do that for me and it’s amazingly helpful so I figure I need to pass it on.
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So glad to realise I’ve been unconsciously doing all of the above for quite some time. Feel like a proud and happy blogger!
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Dear me. I think the people who have left comments so far, for the most part, need to learn how to comment.
Two tips:
1) Allocate half of your blogging time to reading and commenting. At least half. Ensure you read thecpost and manage something more than ‘great post’.
2) You don’t need questions. If you need a question to elicit a comment, your post isn’t good enough.
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PS, this theme is still really unuser friendly.
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I have started making more comments now, – I think it is useful to give feedback if there is something particular I like and I share my own personal experiences on blogs articles I can relate to
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I would also add that sometimes making time to make a short comment has helped inspire some writing for my own blog posts.
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It’s so true. Probably 80% of my followers and people who comment on my blog have found me because I first found them and commented something meaningful on their blog.
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April;
Out of 20% people, I may be one of them who approached you and read your about page and not only that your wonderful blog, well-written post and stunnig images are true pleasure for eyes as well as mind.
Wishing you all the best……………….
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You are too kind. Seriously thank you so much!
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I´m new in here. Thanks for this, Would you mind cheking out my firs post and tell me what you think? I will apreciate it
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If you’re looking for feedback, I suggest trying to Community Pool — it’s specifically for seeking/giving feedback:
https://wordpress.com/dailypost/category/community-pool/
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Ok thanks
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Thanks for this – really need to make it a habit to comment and share others blogs as part of nurturing my own.
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Very good article – good advice!
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Having only just started blogging I have yet to get my first comment and reading this I need to comment on others. I was hoping though that some of my blogs would reach out to people with a genuine interest in what I was trying to teach in my photography tutorials.
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I tend to comment on a lot of Blogs and have made some friends over the four years I’ve been in the community, but I usually write stories which themselves ask questions about life, and possibly that is an approach which takes a little getting used to with my visitors. I am a published author, and I use the Blog to demonstrate my writing skills
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I like how you always encourage us to open up our lives to others Michelle. I agree with you about getting personal and sharing honest stories, We’re all made up from stories and how they make us or brake us either way they’re even more powerful when folks our heart-wrenching honest!
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Thanks for the great post! I’m new to blogging and want to ask if you could visit my blog and give me advice on how to make my blog active with comments and likes and follows. Thanks
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If you’re looking for help/feedback on your blog, try the Community Pool — a weekly open thread where bloggers help bloggers:
https://wordpress.com/dailypost/category/community-pool/
If you’re just getting started, focus on publishing and engaging with others. They’re the best things you can do, and followers will come.
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I am so glad, WP, that it’s you that said this. I am very much of a writer and a reader especially reading the comments people write and sometimes I use them as “Quote and UnQuote.” I don’t pay attention to likers because it does not mean a thing.
Comment sections is the second most important part of blogging. It’s not just for the writer but as well as for the readers. Readers can interact between the commentators.
Writing a meaningful comment is the best way to leave your presence in a post.
So I say, don’t be shy and leave an opinion/comment. You’ll never know when I choose you for my “Quote and Unquote” post.
Cheers. Perpetua
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