INFJoe is the cartoon persona of artist Aaron Caycedo-Kimura. Stuck in a creative rut in 2012, Aaron developed INFJoe and discovered a receptive community of fellow introverts. He’s been sharing funny, insightful, and empowering cartoons on his blog ever since. His new book, Text, Don’t Call: An Illustrated Guide to the Introverted Life, celebrates life as an introvert and offers tips on navigating a noisy, people-filled world.
You began posting on INFJoe Cartoons in January 2013. Why did you start this site? How has your focus or style evolved since then?
I started INFJoe Cartoons to encourage fellow INFJs (my Myers-Briggs personality type). As an artist, I thought drawing comics would be a fun way to do that. Growing up as an INFJ was extremely difficult for me. Among other things, INFJs are deeply emotional, highly sensitive, empathetic, and introverted, and they often find themselves feeling odd or out of place. Almost immediately after launching my site, I began including cartoons for all introverted types and some drawings for everyone regardless of type and temperament. I’ve been doing the same ever since.
The style of my drawings, however, has evolved somewhat. I started out with pen and paper, producing black and white cartoons with somewhat tight lines. Then while preparing for a two-month trip to Spain, I decided I didn’t want to carry art supplies and a scanner around, so I bought an iPad and adopted Paper by FiftyThree as my app and a stylus for my drawing implement. With the new iPad cartoons, I added color and loosened my lines. At present, I’m back to tighter lines, which I attribute to mood and using the Apple Pencil.
How did your book, Text, Don’t Call, come about?
In July 2015, my friend Jenn Granneman, the creator of the online community Introvert, Dear, contacted me to do an article about my cartoons. I was in California at the time, taking care of my mother who had passed away a month before. Jenn didn’t know about my mother but noticed that I hadn’t been posting cartoons. I think she wanted to give me a boost. Her encouragement was just what I needed at that tough time. Her article spread far and wide across the internet, and soon other online magazines were doing articles on the cartoons. In October, Ashton Kutcher’s A Plus published an article, which George Takei shared on his Facebook page. While I was driving back to the East Coast from California, Emily Haynes of BluePen Agency saw the Takei post and emailed me about the possibility of representing me. We began working together right away, and by April 2016, we had a deal with TarcherPerigee.
As an introvert, how do you plan to promote the book? Will you go on a book tour, do speaking engagements, do interviews? How do you feel about all that?
I have an amazing publicist, Danielle Caravella, who fully understands that I’m a huge introvert, and she always checks to see if I’m comfortable doing what she has in mind. She came up with a great way for me to have an introvert book launch party: doing it online as a Reddit AMA (Ask Me Anything)! Right now we don’t have a book tour or speaking engagements scheduled, just written interviews, which is perfect for me. I am, however, open to the possibility of live engagements, believe it or not.
As an introvert as well, I’m grateful to have various outlets, like my blog and Instagram, to express myself in my own way and own time. But I wonder if these platforms make it harder for introverts to emerge from their shells when they really need to, like in social settings or in-person meetings. What do you think?
In general, it’s easier for introverts to express themselves in writing than it is verbally, and it always takes us a little while to process things in our heads before expressing ourselves to the world. So, yes, it can get really comfortable and satisfying online, which may keep some out of practice with face-to-face interactions. On the other hand, introverts who are closer to the middle of the extrovert/introvert continuum may not find it so difficult. I think it really depends on the introvert and degree of introversion.
In addition to WordPress.com, you also have a presence on Twitter, Facebook, Instagram, Tumblr, and Pinterest. Do you use them in different ways? Which is the easiest to express yourself on?
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My WordPress.com blog is home base for me. It’s the first place I post new cartoons and important news. It’s my catalog, my history. I use Twitter, Facebook, Instagram, Tumblr, and Pinterest to broaden my reach. I find it fairly easy to express myself on most platforms, but tend to interact with readers mostly on Twitter, Facebook, and Instagram.
What’s your idea of the perfect day?
It’s a day in which I’m left to myself to be productive, getting lost in my creativity (making art and writing). And then as a reward, I can go out and eat some incredible food with my wife.
Really, when was the last time you talked to someone on the phone?
Other than to my wife asking me what to bring home for lunch? It must have been months ago. Two old friends from elementary school got together and wanted to include me by calling. And this was on speakerphone, which I hate, but I would do it for them any day. I found out that one of them is a fellow INFJ!
Follow Aaron Caycedo-Kimura on his blog, INFJoe Cartoons, and buy his book, Text, Don’t Call: An Illustrated Guide to the Introverted Life, published today.
Great mind
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What people don’t often realise is that it takes solitude to build a brilliant mind. And what does that say about introverts? Mmmm… 🙂
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I agree completely.
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Thanks for sharing. Will definitely make sure to check out that book! Sounds interesting.
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lol i’m an introvert writer, having to do the same with contacts
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Great insights on introvert and how to manage their writing and marketing business. As an introvert myself, I am constantly terrified at the public speech and interacting with others, and I have a hard time attending events for my blogging business. I think the key is to meet people who actually understand us and embrace us, instead of think we does not like to engage and try pulling us out of the introvert shell. In fact, if we are interested in the topic you mention about, we cannot shut up for days.
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I can very well relate
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the point about recharging certainly resonates with me. I consider myself a “functioning introvert” I think some of my friends don’t realise how exhausting I find being around people, and though I do like being around people (when I like it) but going away to recharge in the quiet, alone, is so very important.
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This is awesome! I love the name INFJoe haha. As soon as I read that I was like, “OH! Another INFJ like me!!!” but it’s interesting because they say INFJs are both dreamers and doers so they’ll get things done, but just like he was before, I’ve been in a rut!
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Yes! Isn’t it a cruel irony that we introverts have to be loud and proud to have people understand that we don’t want to be loud and proud??
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I didn’t learn until recently that it was okay to be introverted. Glad I did.
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This is so apt. Haha. I can totally relate to this. I am also more coherent with my words and thoughts when I write them down. I’d love you to check out my blog – rituailani.wordpress.com. I write poetry. 🙂
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Funny how an introvert can express themselves this efficient. Great work! You’ve evolved!
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THIS is my daughter! And me, if truth be told. I love the images. Thank you!
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This is so relate-able for me. Enjoyed reading this article.
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can totally relate to everything, being an introvert is not hard. But it becomes hard when someone tries to push you into engaging with others.l
I’ve recently started writing and will be touching upon such topics, I hope to find an audience here 😀
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As an artist and an Introvert myself, i appreciate your work and hope you don’t mind my sharing your blog with others that may find my own start-up blog. I’m always looking for inspiration for myself and others and this is just the kind I’m looking for. Thank You.
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Seriously. I thought only I had this feeling of not attending phone calls and expecting them to text first .
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Enjoyed and loved reading this…..thanks for sharing..
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Whao! I figured I was weird for hating calls. I would stare at my phone ring until it stops, quietly yelling, “Leave me alone!”
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Nice place to visit. Nice works from Aaron Caycedo-Kimura!
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Enjoyed a lot…thanks.
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