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I am currently in an Ibeyi induced trance. I recently learned about French Cuban gemelas, Naomi and Lisa-Kaindé Díaz, and naturally they’ve been on repeat for the last few days. 320 more words


Because I want to!

I don’t know the first thing about blogging. I am kind of just cannonballin’ it and hoping it’s a good idea…

But I have been doing some thinking and reflecting. 554 more words


On Cuddling

As a rule, I don’t cuddle.

Call it a problem with intimacy, or a fear of commitment. Call it a lie, call it nonsense. Humans need contact; cuddles follow. 465 more words


Some lingering questions after a late night out on the town

1. I am tired of gay men telling me I’m a “cute lesbian”. I know they mean well and have good intentions, but it is exhausting to defend my sexuality. 102 more words


On libations

The consumption of alcohol happens to be a necessary factor in my pursuit of sexual relationships with men.

I am sure some may find my choices to be problematic, blending liquor and sex and emotion and passion together like a fearsome hurricane. 516 more words