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Late-breaking Mother’s Day victory

Okay, so for this past Mother’s Day, I did nothing for my narcissistic mother. Not a card, not an email, nothing. The next day, she sent me an email with “ 592 more words

Narcissistic Mother

What would I do if I wasn't a writer?

Is this the road least travelled, to paraphrase Robert Frost?

In any event, it reminds me of choices in life. The light and shadow that accompany each one and it made me wonder what I would do if I didn’t spend so much of my time writing. 264 more words

Realizing the Narcissist is Crazy. And Believing It.

I have known for quite some time that my narcissistic ex-wife is crazy, but I kept suppressing it, just like everything else associated with our relationship.  1,055 more words


No One Is Judging You... or are they?

When you’re a parent you find yourself dishing out all manner of advise that you have no intention of following yourself. Countless times I’ve comforted pregnant and be-childed friends with The Classic ‘Its ok if your house is a mess, no one is judging you’.   572 more words

My MN ex's weird attitude to his son.

My malignant narcissist ex bullied our son without mercy through most of his childhood. I wrote about that in this article and a few others, so I won’t rehash it again here. 1,343 more words

Malignant Narcissism

Hoovering sucks

Before responding to my mother’s latest round of drama, I wanted to think. As I reflected on our last round of emails, I realized that I was pissed. 806 more words

Narcissistic Mother

My Role As The Cleaner

I have always been self- employed. I have never had a regular paycheque or been able to predict my working status further than a maximum of three months in advance. 312 more words