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My cousin's funeral

May was difficult enough so I decided to ignore June and focus on work. Sweet, wonderful work.

In May, I picked up Baby’s things. Got into a huge row with my she-bitch of a mother. 690 more words

Narcissistic Mother

I don't need your damn fake apologies.

My psychopathic ex was never sorry for anything. Oh, yes, he “apologized” sometimes, but it was only to get me to shut up or because he knew he’d already lost the argument or knew I was right (but he wasn’t really sorry.) It was insulting how stupid he must have thought I was to believe these “apologies” were sincere. 731 more words


The "saintly" narcissist.

Old Peasant Woman by Paula Modersohn-Becker

Not all narcissists are aggressive. Some are covert, and some use their “goodness” as a weapon. This type of narcissist is usually a woman, often a mother. 967 more words

Narcissistic Personality Disorder

Why My kids do chores

I never wanted to be a parent that did everything for my kids…I wanted my children, however many that may be, to understand that the home and upkeep of it is the responsibility of everyone living in it (not just Mum), to learn that things in life require work and to generally be thoughtful and helpful individuals. 703 more words

Trisomy 18

Late-breaking Mother’s Day victory

Okay, so for this past Mother’s Day, I did nothing for my narcissistic mother. Not a card, not an email, nothing. The next day, she sent me an email with “ 592 more words

Narcissistic Mother

What would I do if I wasn't a writer?

Is this the road least travelled, to paraphrase Robert Frost?

In any event, it reminds me of choices in life. The light and shadow that accompany each one and it made me wonder what I would do if I didn’t spend so much of my time writing. 264 more words

Realizing the Narcissist is Crazy. And Believing It.

I have known for quite some time that my narcissistic ex-wife is crazy, but I kept suppressing it, just like everything else associated with our relationship.  1,055 more words