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How to stop enabling an addict

On this talk show:  How to stop enabling an addict…plus, should I decide to stop seeing a guy when there is no future with him?…plus, what to do if you’ve fallen in love with your counselor… 27 more words


The Enablers

In the world of banking, the people on the front lines of the industry are known as tellers. These are the people who are expected to help customers with all of their day to day banking needs. 412 more words


Compassion, Empathetic Burnout, and Distancing...

This past month, I experienced high levels of empathetic burnout (meaning, I left certain conversations and/or meetups feeling emotionally exhausted and extremely drained). These more recent days, I’ve been trying to rejuvenate myself at my apartment. 573 more words

Random Thoughts

Thrifting Together Can Be Dangerous.

There’s nothing like going thrift shopping with a good friend who is also a big time enabler.  That would be BH.

“Oh, that’s for you,” she says, pointing at old books, faded rag rugs, vintage kitchenware, and weathered sheet music during an outing to the Goodwill bins just minutes from both of our houses. 194 more words

Life's an Experiment ... are you showing up to Lab?

Wow !   Life sometimes just knocks at my door and this time I answer alert and conscious.   My swagger changes and a certain sense of awareness comes over me .  781 more words

Metaphorically Speaking

Read My Lips...

  3 times when No is the most positive thing you can say

Quick – What’s the most positive thing you can say to someone who is asking you do something you just don’t want to do? 837 more words



Geraldine Brandt highlights a great biblical truth…

‘Why are you downcast, O my soul? Why so disturbed within me? Put your hope in God, for I will yet praise him, my Saviour and my God … Deep calls to deep in the roar of your waterfalls; all your waves and breakers have swept over me … Why must I go about mourning, oppressed by the enemy?’ 1,307 more words