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Thou Shalt Not Talk About The Ex: A Southern Lesbian Talks First-Date Etiquette 

Written by Black Soliloquy


I’m a GRIT—a G.irl R.aised I.n T.he S.outh. I’m also a Womanist. These two versions of me clash at times. I love claiming and exercising my sexuality, but I do have manners, for heaven’s sake! 767 more words

Black Lesbian Relationships

My Moat

When I was young and I was going through a particular rough break up, I didn’t just develop a “wall” to keep other out. I developed a: 9 more words

Random Thoughts

Online Dating Matters

So I promised I would blog about this tonight.  I’m going to hurry—I’m sit in my bed in the hotel room, listening to my fiancé sleep, knowing that the kids are all snoozing away and I’m about to fall out! 268 more words


Dating Darkness

She drew upon the wine coloured silk curtains, inviting darkness, a perfect match for her life. Her black laced gown elevated the mood, ambiance and her soul. 47 more words

Fictional Anecdotes


I was back at square one.

I had lost, and the worst of it was that I did not see it coming.

And so I sat and I held back. 269 more words

Written Work

What I Like.

Well I went from dating three, to one.

But that one is B, so I don’t really care.

Being just a hookup to someone, was a terrible feeling at first but it’s actually very relieving. 242 more words


Late night ramblings (1)

Hope you are all doing fine, so I finished my finals ! They went well and i’m just glad it’s over (Not for too long though but the one week vacation is very welcomed). 665 more words