Relief. After going around and around in circles with the judging jackal voice in my head I asked for help. I wrote a plea to an NVC forum and also spoke to an experienced NVCer friend of mine, Cherr… more →
thoughts, needs and feelingsBlueTulip wrote 21 hours ago: Relief. After going around and around in circles with the judging jackal voice in my head I asked f … more →
BlueTulip wrote 1 day ago: I’ve been pondering this ‘being bossed around’ concept quite a bit. So now to work … more →
BlueTulip wrote 3 weeks ago: Why am I unhappy at work? I’m really not sure, and so that is making things worse. I don … more →
BlueTulip wrote 3 weeks ago: On Saturday after BJ came over to my place I was getting agitated because he was going on and on abo … more →
BlueTulip wrote 3 weeks ago: I found it! I found an explanation of the difference between empathy and sympathy in NVC terms. http … more →
BlueTulip wrote 3 weeks ago: One thing I’ve heard from my lessons in NVC is that, as you’re learning, try not to get … more →
BlueTulip wrote 3 weeks ago: Staying on the Dilbert theme… At least he tried to get his need for sympathy met! Perhaps if … more →
BlueTulip wrote 3 weeks ago: I’ve been listening to Marshall’s recording of his book from the beginning again, in the … more →
Robert wrote 1 month ago: Yesterday I came back from a 6-day NVC training with Robert Gonzales, an event that reached very dee … more →
Krista wrote 1 month ago: Wow. It’s hard to believe I’ve already come to the end of my eleven-week course in NVC … more →
Krista wrote 1 month ago: This post could be considered a miracle! It is so difficult to find the time to get anything up here … more →
oferofer wrote 1 month ago: I just finished reading a wonderful short book written by my friend Inbal Kashtan. The book is about … more →
BlueTulip wrote 1 month ago: Argh!! It happened again. But this time I was able to look at my feelings and recognise my unmet nee … more →
BlueTulip wrote 1 month ago: Yesterday I experienced intense feelings after driving around Melbourne going to various stores. Tow … more →
softawards wrote 2 months ago: Norman Personal Firewall has been developed to protect all users, both at the office and at home. No … more →
BlueTulip wrote 2 months ago: The thing about love is that it is largely un-identifiable. Everybody uses the word to describe feel … more →
Krista wrote 2 months ago: After a morning of stumbling, of saying things I wish I hadn’t, of taking measures to comfort … more →
Robert wrote 2 months ago: Today I have worked with that group of school-kids again and reached another revealing and sad reali … more →
Krista wrote 2 months ago: Once I had committed to the idea that I’d like to change and improve my parenting style to be … more →