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<title><![CDATA[YOU Can Be a Great American!]]></title>
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<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><em>A sturdy but quiet independence; a genuine love of righteousness and truth; a life of uprightness and integrity, of honesty and fair dealing; an absence of cringing and paltering, and of that miserable and contemptible fawning upon the rich, and that silly and despicable worship of those in place and power, which is too frequently to be observed;--all these things, and others, must receive care and attention before the ideal stage of manhood can be reached…</em></p>
<h3>An Excerpt from <a title="You Can Be a Great American!" href="http://www.lulu.com/content/1891808" target="_blank"><em>You Can Be a Great American! 39 Steps to True and Lasting Greatness (a Growing Up Great Guide for American Boys and for the Parents and Teachers Who Love Them)</em></a>, by W. F. Markwick and W. A.  Smith</h3>
<p>Final Entry (<strong>#39</strong>) in the <em>Raising Great Americans Project! </em><a title="The Raising Great Americans Project" href="http://betterdaysbooks.wordpress.com/2008/05/24/raising-moral-kids-in-an-amoral-culture/" target="_blank">Click Here to learn More</a>!</p>
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<h2 style="text-align:center;">THE IDEAL CITIZEN</h2>
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<p style="text-align:center;"><strong>MEMORY GEMS</strong></p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><em>Voters are the uncrowned kings who rule the nation.</em></p>
<p style="text-align:center;">--Morgan</p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><em>A second-rate man can never make a first-rate citizen.</em></p>
<p style="text-align:center;">--J. S. White</p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><em>Every good man in politics wields a power for good.</em></p>
<p style="text-align:center;">--M. C. Peters</p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><em>If you want a clean city, vote to place the government in clean hands.</em></p>
<p style="text-align:center;">--Dr. Mc Glynn</p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><em>The ideal citizen is the man who believes that all men are brothers,<br />
and that the nation is merely an extension of his family.</em></p>
<p style="text-align:center;">--Habberton</p>
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<p style="text-align:justify;">We may now proceed to bring our studies to a close. All that has been said, from the beginning, has been gradually but surely focusing itself upon a single point; for the development of all these several faculties and powers leads directly to the forming of a well-rounded and fully-developed manhood.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">A fully-developed manhood is the highest possible human achievement, and includes within itself all that can be desired; and for this higher manhood we now make our final and most urgent plea.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">The real man is discovered in the sum total of his ideas; for it is in these that his life takes shape and character, it is in these that his true self comes into view. The real power of the true man lies in his being able to turn his thoughts inward upon himself; to so gauge and measure his own powers as to put them to the best uses; and to stand aloof from those positions and practices for which he finds himself to be unfitted.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">The simple application of this rule to the practical affairs of today would diminish the number of our machine politicians by about four fifths. We are loaded down, almost to the breaking point, with politicians who do not understand politics, and who advocate measures which are not for the public good, because the public good is not the end for which they strive. But the fault is in the men themselves, rather than in our political system. They must first be made manly, before they can be made truly useful. They must first learn to govern themselves, before they can successfully carry forward the work of governing the nation. They must be taught that bluster is not argument, and that to go through the motions of political service does not in the least aid in the promotion of the public welfare. A single service rendered from the heart is often of more value than a whole life of noisy and showy pretense; but again we say that such service is almost always the result of a thoughtful and considerate manliness.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">All this applies with equal force to the private citizen. A sturdy but quiet independence; a genuine love of righteousness and truth; a life of uprightness and integrity, of honesty and fair dealing; an absence of cringing and paltering, and of that miserable and contemptible fawning upon the rich, and that silly and despicable worship of those in place and power, which is too frequently to be observed;--all these things, and others, must receive care and attention before the ideal stage of manhood can be reached.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">The manly man is a thinking being. By this we do not mean to say that he imagines that he is running the universe, and that no one but himself is acquainted with the secrets of its mechanism; but that he has a right to weigh all questions in the scales of his own reason, and to draw his own conclusions from the facts presented to his mind. If he be truly a man, he will hold to that which he feels to be true against all opposition, but will, with equal readiness, yield in all points where he discovers himself to be in the wrong. Instead of going through life in political leading-strings, bending to the will of one man, and gulping down the opinions of another, he will stand upon his own feet, put his own vertebral column to its legitimate use of sustaining his body, and his own mind to its legitimate use of directing the issues of his life.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">The ideal citizen will also be a gentleman. By this term, we do not mean the milk-and-water, kid-gloved creature, who so often attempts to pass muster in this connection. All that we have asked for in the man, we insist on in the gentleman. Sturdy independence, vigorous thought, mental and moral uprightness, and a backbone as strong as a bar of steel,--but all tempered with a gentleness of disposition and a courtesy of manner which brings every natural faculty and power beneath its sway, and yet leaves principle and righteousness entirely undisturbed.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">The real gentleman is, above all else, courteous and considerate. He is master of himself, and that at all points,--in his carriage, his temper, his aims, and his desires. Calm, quiet, and temperate, he will not allow himself to be hasty in judgment or exorbitant in ambition; nor will he suffer himself to be overbearing or grasping, arrogant or oppressive.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">The ideal citizen will also be, in the better sense of the word, a politician. Be careful to note here that we say, a politician <em>in the better sense</em>. We would have you distinguish, with the utmost clearness, between a politician and a partisan. The true politician, looking ever to the highest interests of the state, is a public benefactor; while it very frequently happens that the mere political partisan is a public nuisance, if not a public disgrace.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">The man who sinks his country's interests in his own, and the man who sacrifices his personal advantages for the sake of his country's good, stand at the very opposite poles of human society. The man who swears by party watchwords, and moves amid the burning animosities of party strife, is centering his life in interests which may vanish like an evening cloud. Not in the loud clamors of partisan struggle, are we to find the secret highways which lead to national prosperity and progress, but in that quiet, thoughtful, careful study of the interests and events in which the national life is taking shape and color, and in the application to these of the great principles of righteousness and common sense.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">This is about equal to saying that the ideal citizen will be a patriot. We have so mixed in our minds the two distinct ideas of patriotism and heroism, that we have need to pause for a moment, that we may disentangle ourselves from the meshes of this net of misconception, before we venture to proceed.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">If we call for an illustration of patriotism, you point us to some Horatius or Leonidas of the olden times; or to some William Tell, or Ulysses Grant, of these more modern days. We do not say that these men were not patriots, and patriots of a high order too. But their circumstances were exceptional, and under these exceptional circumstances their patriotism made them heroes. But if you will enter into a careful study of the matter, you will find that it is the heroism, quite as much as the patriotism of their lives, which takes so strong a hold upon your hearts.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">We therefore desire to place by the side of our beloved Grant, the man who, in the midst of a bitter struggle for bread, can barely manage by the closest possible economy to keep his family from want and shame, but who still sacrifices an hour's wages that he may go to the polls and vote the expression of his will, and thus support the measures which he honestly believes to be for the public good; and we desire to say that, on the ground of a true patriotism, we consider that the one is fully the equal of the other, and that there is a sense in which the man of smaller opportunities is the greater hero of the two.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">There may be a thousand definitions of heroism, but the patriot is simply "a man who places his country's interests before his own." He is a patriot who fills well his station in life whether public or private, who loves peace and promotes order, who labors to uphold the good and to put down the bad. He is a patriot who uses all his advantages of friendship, acquaintance, business connection, social position and the like, in such a manner as to make these helps and not hindrances to his country's progress. He is a patriot who seeks to aid in all movements that look to the instruction, elevation, and permanent betterment of his fellow-citizens, and to put down all such movements or institutions as tend to demoralize and degrade them. Such is the patriotism we plead for; and such patriotism and ideal citizenship are, in our minds, just one and the same thing.<br />
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<p style="text-align:justify;">This Article is an Excerpt from <a title="You Can Be a Great American!" href="http://www.lulu.com/content/1891808" target="_blank"><em>You Can Be a Great American! 39 Steps to True and Lasting Greatness (a Growing Up Great Guide for American Boys and for the Parents and Teachers Who Love Them)</em></a>, by W. F. Markwick and W. A.  Smith, which is available from Better Days Books in quality hardbound, sturdy trade paperback and convenient .PDF e-book editions starting at just $4.95.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;"><em>Industry, Ambition, Self Control, Self-Respect, Courtesy, Faithfulness, Courage, Duty, Honesty, Enthusiasm, Humility, Patriotism…</em> In every era of our Nation's history, the true alchemy by which ordinary boys have been transformed into Great American Men has always and only occurred where these indispensible moral principles have been successfully applied. In an age like our own, where such manly ideals are openly mocked and derided by our popular culture, it's time to turn to the past to recapture a clear vision of what it takes to be a <em>Great American</em>, and the true moral and ethical ladder that leads reliably to its attainment.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;"><a title="You Can Be a Great American!" href="http://www.lulu.com/content/1891808" target="_blank"><em>You Can Be a Great American:  39 Steps to True and Lasting Greatness</em></a> was first published in 1900, under the title <em>The True Citizen, How to Become One</em>, and contains  39 essential lessons in manhood tailored to each age and transition in a boy's life, from infancy to adulthood.  It is the clearest roadmap to American Greatness ever compiled for the youth of our Nation, and remains as life-changing today as it was when first published, over 100 years ago.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Whether you are an adult raising boys in a Traditional family setting, the single parent of a son, or a boy abandoned to no or poor parenting, left to grab your own bootstraps and lift yourself up to a life of achievement, success and All-American Greatness (or an adult who knows a boy in such sad straits), <a title="You Can Be a Great American!" href="http://www.lulu.com/content/1891808" target="_blank"><em>You Can Be a Great American!: 39 Steps to True and Lasting Greatness</em></a> is the only guidebook you'll ever need.</p>
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<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><em>Loyalty is also a form of faithfulness. It is patriotism in practice. Only the patriotic citizen is loyal to his country. The absence of this sentiment, in times of national peril, exposes one to indecision and cowardice, if not to treason. Hence its great value and beauty. It is indispensable to good citizenship; indeed there is no true manhood and womanhood without it. It is involved in the American idea of republican institutions. It is loyalty alone which makes it possible for our country to continue on its course from year to year…</em></p>
<h3>An Excerpt from <a title="You Can Be a Great American!" href="http://www.lulu.com/content/1891808" target="_blank"><em>You Can Be a Great American! 39 Steps to True and Lasting Greatness (a Growing Up Great Guide for American Boys and for the Parents and Teachers Who Love Them)</em></a>, by W. F. Markwick and W. A.  Smith</h3>
<p>Entry #<strong>24</strong> in the <em>Raising Great Americans Project! </em><a title="The Raising Great Americans Project" href="http://betterdaysbooks.wordpress.com/2008/05/24/raising-moral-kids-in-an-amoral-culture/" target="_blank">Click Here to learn More</a>!</p>
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<h2 style="text-align:center;">FAITHFULNESS</h2>
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<p style="text-align:center;"><strong>MEMORY GEMS</strong></p>
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<p style="text-align:center;"><em>Faithfulness is the soul of goodness.</em></p>
<p style="text-align:center;">--J. S. White</p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><em>That which we love most in men and women is faithfulness.</em></p>
<p style="text-align:center;">--S. Brooke</p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><em>It is the fidelity in the daily drill which turns<br />
the raw recruit into the accomplished soldier.</em></p>
<p style="text-align:center;">--W. M. Punshon</p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><em>The secret of success in life is for a man<br />
to be faithful to all his duties and obligations.</em></p>
<p style="text-align:center;">--Disraeli</p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><em>The truest test of civilization is not the census, nor the size of<br />
cities, nor the crops; but the kind of men the country turns out.</em></p>
<p style="text-align:center;">--Emerson</p>
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<p style="text-align:justify;">Faithfulness is just as possible to boys and girls as to men and women. To be faithful is to be true to our own convictions,--never acting without or against them,--and true to our professions,--never breaking promises, or swerving from engagements.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Exactly what we mean will readily be seen in the following incident:</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">When Blucher was hastening over bad roads to help Wellington at Waterloo, his troops faltered. "It can't be done," said they. "It must be done," was his reply. "I have promised to be there-- <em>promised</em>, do you hear? You wouldn't have me break my word!" It was done, as we all know; and the result of his faithfulness was a great victory for Wellington, and the complete overthrow of Napoleon.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Faithfulness in the daily routine of school work has laid the foundation of many a noble character. There is no one thing which will sooner wreck a young man, and utterly ruin his future prospects, than the reputation of being lazy and shiftless.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Mr. Ruskin, speaking of the importance of faithfulness among the young people of England, said, "Could I give the youth of this country but one word of advice it would be this: <em>Let no moment pass until you have extracted from it every possibility. Watch every grain in the hourglass</em>."</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Sir Walter Scott, writing to his son at school, says: "I cannot too much impress upon your mind that faithfulness is a condition imposed on us in every station of life; there is nothing worth having that can be had without it. As for knowledge, it can no more be planted in the human mind without labor than a field of wheat can be produced without the previous use of the plow. If we neglect our spring, our summer will be useless and contemptible, our harvest will be chaff, and the winter of our old age unrespected and desolate."</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">It will be seen, therefore, that all young persons should endeavor to make each day stand for something. Neither heaven nor earth has any place for the drone; he is a libel on his species. No glamour of wealth or social prestige can hide his essential ugliness. It is better to carry a hod, or wield a shovel, in an honest endeavor to be of some use to humanity, than to be nursed in luxury and be a parasite.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">The emptiness and misery sometimes found in idle high life is illustrated by the following letter, written by a French countess to the absent count:</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">"DEAR HUSBAND:--Not knowing what else to do I will write to you. Not knowing what to say, I will now close. Wearily yours, COUNTESS DE R."</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Of course we must admit that there is variety in the distribution of human talents; and yet no one of us is incompletely furnished. Each one has to be faithful only according to the measure of his trust, and is not expected to make disproportionate gains. Some men are especially fortunate both in opportunities and in resources, while to others, chances of advancement come but seldom; but the man of few opportunities may be just as faithful as the man who has many.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">If you would be accounted faithful, you must do little things as if they were great, and great things as if they were little and easy. That is the true road to success; and your place or station in life has very little to do with it.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Calais is a pleasant seaport town of France, situated on the Straits of Dover. Large numbers of travelers from England to France, and from France to England, pass through this beautiful town. Near the center of it is a lighthouse, one hundred and eighteen feet high, on which is placed a revolving light that can be seen by vessels twenty miles out at sea.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">At one time some gentlemen were visiting the tower upon which the light is placed, when the watchman who has charge of the burners commenced praising their brilliancy. One of the gentlemen then said to him, "What if one of the lights should chance to go out?" "Impossible!" replied the watchman, with amazement at the bare thought of such neglect of duty. "Sir," said he, pointing to the ocean, "yonder, where nothing can be seen, there are ships going to every part of the world. If to-night one of my burners were out, within six months would come a letter—from India, perhaps from the islands of the Pacific Ocean, perhaps from some place I never heard of--saying that on such a night, at such an hour, the light of Calais burned dim; the watchman neglected his post, and vessels were in danger. Ah, sir, sometimes on dark nights, in the stormy weather, I look out at sea, and I feel as if the eyes of the whole world were looking at my light! My light go out! Calais's burners grow dim! No, never!"</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Exactly the opposite of this is seen in the incident which follows:</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">A few years ago, the keeper of a life-saving station on the Atlantic coast found that his supply of powder had given out. The nearest village was two or three miles distant, and the weather was inclement. He concluded that it "was not worth while to go so far for such a trifle." That night a vessel was wrecked within sight of the station. A line could have been given to the crew if he had been able to use the mortar; but he had no powder. He saw the drowning men perish one by one, knowing that he alone was to blame. A few days afterward he was justly dismissed from the service.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Faithfulness must especially take into account the feelings and expectations we have raised in other minds. In this matter we cannot be too careful. It is said of Lord Chatham that he once promised his son that he should be present at the pulling down of a garden wall. The wall was, however, taken down during his absence, through forgetfulness; but, feeling the importance of his word being held sacred, Lord Chatham ordered the workman to rebuild it, that his son might witness its destruction according to his father's promise.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Loyalty is also a form of faithfulness. It is patriotism in practice. Only the patriotic citizen is loyal to his country. The absence of this sentiment, in times of national peril, exposes one to indecision and cowardice, if not to treason. Hence its great value and beauty. It is indispensable to good citizenship; indeed there is no true manhood and womanhood without it. It is involved in the American idea of republican institutions. It is loyalty alone which makes it possible for our country to continue on its course from year to year.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">This form of faithfulness is just now commanding attention throughout our land. The national flag is flung to the breeze over our schoolhouses, that American youth may not forget their allegiance to the government it represents. The stars and stripes floating over the temples of knowledge, wherein our youth are being trained for usefulness and honor, is worth far more to us than we realize; and we should always be ready to hail it with joyous songs and cheers.</p>
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<h2 style="text-align:center;">CYRUS W. FIELD</h2>
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<p style="text-align:justify;">One of the greatest enterprises of modern times, was the laying of the first Atlantic cable. Cyrus W. Field became impressed with the feasibility of this project. He induced capitalists to put their money into it; and then plunged into the work with all the force of his being. The faithfulness with which he performed his task gained for him the united praise of two continents.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">By hard work he secured aid for his company from the British government; but in Congress he encountered such bitter opposition from a powerful lobby that his measure had a majority of only one in the senate.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">The cable was loaded upon the Agamemnon, the flagship of the British fleet at Sebastopol, and upon the Niagara, a magnificent new frigate of the United States navy; but, when five miles of cable had been paid out, it caught in the machinery and parted. On the second trial, when two hundred miles at sea, the electric current was suddenly lost, and men paced the decks nervously and sadly, as if in the presence of death. Just as Mr. Field was about to give the order to cut the cable, the current returned as quickly and mysteriously as it had disappeared. The following night, when the ship was moving but four miles an hour and the cable running out at the rate of six miles, the brakes were applied too suddenly just as the steamer gave a heavy lurch, and the cable broke and sank to the bottom of the sea.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Directors were disheartened, the public skeptical, capitalists were shy, and, but for the faith of Mr. Field, who worked day and night, almost without food or sleep, the whole project would have been abandoned.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">A third attempt also resulted in failure, but not discouraged by all these difficulties, Mr. Field went to work with a will, organized a new company, and made a new cable far superior to anything before used; and, on July 13, 1866, was begun the trial which ended with the following message sent to New York:</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">"HEART'S CONTENT, July 27.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">"We arrived here at nine o'clock this morning. All well. Thank God! The cable is laid and is in perfect working order. CYRUS W. FIELD."</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Such, in brief, is the story of the faithful performance of a seemingly impossible task. It was a long, hard struggle, covering nearly thirteen years of anxious watching and ceaseless toil. But the name and fame of Cyrus W. Field will long be cherished and remembered by a grateful people.<br />
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<p style="text-align:justify;">This Article is an Excerpt from <a title="You Can Be a Great American!" href="http://www.lulu.com/content/1891808" target="_blank"><em>You Can Be a Great American! 39 Steps to True and Lasting Greatness (a Growing Up Great Guide for American Boys and for the Parents and Teachers Who Love Them)</em></a>, by W. F. Markwick and W. A.  Smith, which is available from Better Days Books in quality hardbound, sturdy trade paperback and convenient .PDF e-book editions starting at just $4.95.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;"><em>Industry, Ambition, Self Control, Self-Respect, Courtesy, Faithfulness, Courage, Duty, Honesty, Enthusiasm, Humility, Patriotism…</em> In every era of our Nation's history, the true alchemy by which ordinary boys have been transformed into Great American Men has always and only occurred where these indispensible moral principles have been successfully applied. In an age like our own, where such manly ideals are openly mocked and derided by our popular culture, it's time to turn to the past to recapture a clear vision of what it takes to be a <em>Great American</em>, and the true moral and ethical ladder that leads reliably to its attainment.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;"><a title="You Can Be a Great American!" href="http://www.lulu.com/content/1891808" target="_blank"><em>You Can Be a Great American:  39 Steps to True and Lasting Greatness</em></a> was first published in 1900, under the title <em>The True Citizen, How to Become One</em>, and contains  39 essential lessons in manhood tailored to each age and transition in a boy's life, from infancy to adulthood.  It is the clearest roadmap to American Greatness ever compiled for the youth of our Nation, and remains as life-changing today as it was when first published, over 100 years ago.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Whether you are an adult raising boys in a Traditional family setting, the single parent of a son, or a boy abandoned to no or poor parenting, left to grab your own bootstraps and lift yourself up to a life of achievement, success and All-American Greatness (or an adult who knows a boy in such sad straits), <a title="You Can Be a Great American!" href="http://www.lulu.com/content/1891808" target="_blank"><em>You Can Be a Great American!: 39 Steps to True and Lasting Greatness</em></a> is the only guidebook you'll ever need.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Also available through <a title="You Can Be a Great American!" href="http://www.amazon.com/dp/0615188818/" target="_blank">Amazon.com</a> in quality <a title="You Can Be a Great American!" href="http://www.amazon.com/dp/0615188818/" target="_blank">trade paperback</a> and <a title="You Can Be a Great American!" href="http://www.amazon.com/dp/B0012R4L6O/" target="_blank">Kindle e-book download</a> editions.</p>
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<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h3>An Excerpt from <a title="You Can Be a Great American!" href="http://www.lulu.com/content/1891808" target="_blank"><em>You Can Be a Great American! 39 Steps to True and Lasting Greatness (a Growing Up Great Guide for American Boys and for the Parents and Teachers Who Love Them)</em></a>, by W. F. Markwick and W. A.  Smith</h3>
<p>Entry #<strong>13</strong> in the <em>Raising Great Americans Project! </em><a title="The Raising Great Americans Project" href="http://betterdaysbooks.wordpress.com/2008/05/24/raising-moral-kids-in-an-amoral-culture/" target="_blank">Click Here to learn More</a>!</p>
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<h2 style="text-align:center;">PERSEVERANCE</h2>
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<p style="text-align:center;"><strong>MEMORY GEMS</strong></p>
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<p style="text-align:center;"><em>Every noble work is at first impossible.</em></p>
<p style="text-align:center;">--Carlyle</p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><em>Victory belongs to the most persevering.</em></p>
<p style="text-align:center;">--Napoleon</p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><em>Our greatest glory is, not in never falling, but in rising every time we fall.</em></p>
<p style="text-align:center;">--Goldsmith</p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><em>Success in most things depends on knowing how long it takes to succeed.</em></p>
<p style="text-align:center;">--Montesquieu</p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><em>Perseverance is failing nineteen times and succeeding the twentieth.</em></p>
<p style="text-align:center;">--Dr J. Anderson</p>
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<p style="text-align:justify;">Perseverance depends on three things,--purpose, will, enthusiasm. He who has a purpose is always concentrating his forces. By the will, constantly educated, the hope and plan are prevented from evaporating into dreams, and a little gain is all the time being added. Enthusiasm keeps the interest up, and makes the obstacles seem small. Young people often call perseverance plodding, and look with impatience on careful, steady efforts of any kind. It is plodding in a certain sense, but by it the mountain is scaled; whereas the impetuous nature soon tires, or is injured, and the climb is over, half-finished. The founders of New England did not believe in "chances." They did believe in work. The young man who thinks to get on by mere smartness and by idling, meets failure at last.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">But there is a higher outlook. Life is in a sense a battle; certainly there is an unending struggle within ourselves to make the better part rule the worse. Perseverance is the master impulse of the firmest souls, and holds the key to those treasure-houses of knowledge from which the world has drawn its wealth both of wisdom and of moral worth.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Great men never wait for opportunities; they make them. Nor do they wait for facilities or favoring circumstances; they seize upon whatever is at hand, work out their problem, and master the situation. A young man determined and willing, will find a way or make one. Great men have found no royal road to their triumph. It is always the old route, by way of industry and perseverance.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Bunyan wrote his "Pilgrim's Progress" on the untwisted papers used to cork the bottles of milk brought for his meals. Gifford wrote his first copy of a mathematical work, when a cobbler's apprentice, on small scraps of leather; and Rittenhouse, the astronomer, first calculated eclipses on his plow handle.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">"Circumstances," says Milton, "have rarely favored famous men. They have fought their way to triumph through all sorts of opposing obstacles. The greatest thing a man can do in this world is to make the most possible out of the stuff that has been given to him. This is success, and there is no other."</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Paris was in the hands of a mob; the authorities were panic-stricken, for they did not dare to trust their underlings. In came a man who said, "I know a young officer who has the courage and ability to quell this mob." "Send for him; send for him," said they. Napoleon was sent for, came, subjugated the mob, subjugated the authorities, ruled France, then conquered Europe.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">One of the first lessons of life is to learn how to get victory out of defeat. It takes courage and stamina, when mortified and embarrassed by humiliating disaster, to seek in the wreck or ruins the elements of future conquest. Yet this measures the difference between those who succeed and those who fail. You cannot measure a man by his failures. You must know what use he makes of them.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Always watch with great interest a young man's first failure. It is the index of his life, the measure of his success-power. The mere fact of his failure has interest; but how did he take his defeat? What did he do next? Was he discouraged? Did he slink out of sight? Did he conclude that he had made a mistake in his calling, and dabble in something else? Or was he up and at it again with a determination that knows no defeat?</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">There is something grand and inspiring in a young man who fails squarely after doing his level best, and then enters the contest again and again with undaunted courage and redoubled energy. Have no fears for the youth who is not disheartened at failure.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Raleigh failed, but he left a name ever to be linked with brave effort and noble character. Kossuth did not succeed, but his lofty career, his burning words, and his ideal fidelity will move men for good as long as time shall last. O'Connell did not win his cause, but he did achieve enduring fame as an orator, patriot, and apostle of liberty.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">President Lincoln was asked, "How does Grant impress you as a leading general?" "The greatest thing about him is his persistency of purpose," he replied. "He is not easily excited, and he has the grip of a bulldog. When he once gets his teeth in nothing can shake him off."</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Chauncey Jerome's education was limited to three months in the district school each year until he was ten, when his father took him into his blacksmith shop at Plymouth, Connecticut, to make nails. Money was a scarce article with young Chauncey. His father died when he was eleven, and his mother was forced to send him out to earn a living on a farm. At fourteen he was apprenticed for seven years to a carpenter, who gave him only board and clothes. One day he heard people talking of Eli Terry, of Plymouth, who had undertaken to make two hundred clocks in one lot. "He'll never live long enough to finish them," said one. "If he should," said another, "he could not possibly sell so many. The very idea is ridiculous."</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Chauncey pondered long over this rumor, for it had long been his dream to become a great clock-maker. He tried his hand at the first opportunity, and soon learned to make a wooden clock. When he got an order to make twelve at twelve dollars apiece he thought his fortune was made.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">One night he happened to think that a cheap clock could be made of brass as well as of wood, and would not shrink, swell, or warp appreciably in any climate. He acted on the idea, and became the first great manufacturer of brass clocks. He made millions at the rate of six hundred a day, exporting them to all parts of the globe.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">A constant struggle, a ceaseless battle to bring success from hard surroundings, is the price of all great achievements. The man who has not fought his way upward, and does not bear the scar of desperate conflict, does not know the highest meaning of success.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Columbus was dismissed as a fool from court after court, but he pushed his suit against an unbelieving and ridiculing world. Rebuffed by kings, scorned by queens, he did not swerve a hair's breadth from the overmastering purpose which dominated his soul. The words "New World" were graven upon his heart; and reputation, ease, pleasure, position, life itself, if need be, must be sacrificed. Neither threats, ridicule, storms, leaky vessels, nor mutiny of sailors, could shake his mighty purpose.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Lucky for the boy who can say, "In the bright lexicon of youth there is no such word as fail. We do not care for the men who change with every wind! Give us men like mountains, who change the winds. You cannot at one dash rise into eminence. You must hammer it out by steady and rugged blows.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">A man can get what he wants if he pays the price--persistent, plodding perseverance. Never doubt the result; victory will be yours. There may be ways to fortune shorter than the old, dusty highway; but the staunch men in the community all go on this road. If you want to do anything, don't stand back waiting for a better chance to arise, but rush in and seize it; and then cling to it with all the power you possess until you have made it serve the purpose for which you desired it, or yield the good which you believe it to contain.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">The lack of perseverance is the cause of many a failure. We do not stand by our plans faithfully. Fashion, or criticism, or temporary weariness, or fickleness of taste, leads us off; and we have to begin our work all over. Look at the history of every noted invention; read the lives of musicians who were born with genius, but wrought out triumph by perseverance; and you will find abundant proof that without perseverance nothing valuable can be accomplished.</p>
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<h2 style="text-align:center;">GEORGE STEPHENSON</h2>
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<p style="text-align:justify;">George Stephenson's struggle for the adoption of his locomotive is another noteworthy case in point. People said "he is crazy"; "his roaring steam engine will set the houses on fire with its sparks"; "the smoke will pollute the air"; "the carriage makers and coachmen will starve for want of work." So intense was the opposition, that for three whole days the matter was debated in the House of Commons; and on that occasion a government inspector said that if a locomotive ever went ten miles an hour, he would undertake to eat a stewed engine for breakfast. "What can be more palpably absurd and ridiculous than the prospect held out of locomotives traveling twice as fast as horses?" asked a writer in the English Quarterly Review for March, 1825. "We trust that Parliament will, in all the railways it may grant, limit the speed to eight or nine miles an hour, which we entirely agree, with Mr. Sylvester, is as great as can be ventured upon."</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">This article referred to Stephenson's proposition to use his newly invented locomotive instead of horses on the Liverpool and Manchester Railway, then in process of construction. The company referred the matter to two leading English engineers, who reported that steam would be desirable only when used in stationary engines one and a half miles apart, drawing the cars by means of ropes and pulleys.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">But Stephenson persuaded them to test his idea by offering a prize of about twenty-five hundred dollars for the best locomotive produced at a trial to take place October 6, 1829. On the eventful day, long waited for, thousands of spectators assembled to watch the competition of four engines, the "Novelty," the "Rocket," the "Perseverance," and the "Sanspareil." The "Perseverance" could make but six miles an hour, and so was ruled out, as the conditions called for at least ten. The "Sanspareil" made an average of fourteen miles an hour, but as it burst a water-pipe it lost its chance. The "Novelty" did splendidly, but also burst a pipe, and was crowded out, leaving the "Rocket" to carry off the honors with an average speed of fifteen miles an hour, the highest rate attained being twenty-nine. This was Stephenson's locomotive, and so fully vindicated his theory that the idea of stationary engines on a railroad was completely exploded. He had picked up the fixed engines which the genius of Watt had devised, and set them on wheels to draw men and merchandise, against the most direful predictions of the foremost engineers of his day.<br />
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<p style="text-align:justify;">This Article is an Excerpt from <a title="You Can Be a Great American!" href="http://www.lulu.com/content/1891808" target="_blank"><em>You Can Be a Great American! 39 Steps to True and Lasting Greatness (a Growing Up Great Guide for American Boys and for the Parents and Teachers Who Love Them)</em></a>, by W. F. Markwick and W. A.  Smith, which is available from Better Days Books in quality hardbound, sturdy trade paperback and convenient .PDF e-book editions starting at just $4.95.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;"><em>Industry, Ambition, Self Control, Self-Respect, Courtesy, Faithfulness, Courage, Duty, Honesty, Enthusiasm, Humility, Patriotism…</em> In every era of our Nation's history, the true alchemy by which ordinary boys have been transformed into Great American Men has always and only occurred where these indispensible moral principles have been successfully applied. In an age like our own, where such manly ideals are openly mocked and derided by our popular culture, it's time to turn to the past to recapture a clear vision of what it takes to be a <em>Great American</em>, and the true moral and ethical ladder that leads reliably to its attainment.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;"><a title="You Can Be a Great American!" href="http://www.lulu.com/content/1891808" target="_blank"><em>You Can Be a Great American:  39 Steps to True and Lasting Greatness</em></a> was first published in 1900, under the title <em>The True Citizen, How to Become One</em>, and contains  39 essential lessons in manhood tailored to each age and transition in a boy's life, from infancy to adulthood.  It is the clearest roadmap to American Greatness ever compiled for the youth of our Nation, and remains as life-changing today as it was when first published, over 100 years ago.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Whether you are an adult raising boys in a Traditional family setting, the single parent of a son, or a boy abandoned to no or poor parenting, left to grab your own bootstraps and lift yourself up to a life of achievement, success and All-American Greatness (or an adult who knows a boy in such sad straits), <a title="You Can Be a Great American!" href="http://www.lulu.com/content/1891808" target="_blank"><em>You Can Be a Great American!: 39 Steps to True and Lasting Greatness</em></a> is the only guidebook you'll ever need.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Also available through <a title="You Can Be a Great American!" href="http://www.amazon.com/dp/0615188818/" target="_blank">Amazon.com</a> in quality <a title="You Can Be a Great American!" href="http://www.amazon.com/dp/0615188818/" target="_blank">trade paperback</a> and <a title="You Can Be a Great American!" href="http://www.amazon.com/dp/B0012R4L6O/" target="_blank">Kindle e-book download</a> editions.</p>
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<pubDate>Wed, 14 May 2008 00:39:56 +0000</pubDate>
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I&#8217;m waiting and waiting to hear one of the greatest speeches ever to be delivered..
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<p><span style="color:#000080;">I'm waiting and waiting to hear one of the greatest speeches ever to be delivered..</span></p>
<p><span style="color:#000080;">Apparently Clinton will deliver that speech tonight and boy I can't wait to hear it </span><span style="color:#000080;">Chris Matthews and Keith Olberman have been talking about it all night..I guess the speech is being billed 'as the greatest speech in the universe', by Clintons' people boy this is going to be good..lol </span></p>
<p><span style="color:#000080;">Move over Lincoln and Churchill, f</span><span style="color:#000080;">orget about the <a title="now this is one of the greatest speeches ever.." href="http://showcase.netins.net/web/creative/lincoln/speeches/gettysburg.htm"><span style="color:#ff0000;">Gettysburg Address</span> </a>and the <a title="and yet another great speech.." href="http://www.winstonchurchill.org/i4a/pages/index.cfm?pageid=423"><span style="color:#ff0000;">Never, Give In</span></a> speeches..h</span><span style="color:#000080;">ere comes Clinton with her victory speech after winning West Virginia..lol </span></p>
<p><span style="color:#000080;">I really hope I don't fall asleep..</span></p>
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<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Deep I lie immersed in the history of our nation and the charismatic leaders that came out on the stage of the world as she bled in war and rejoiced in love and peace.</p>
<p>Writing Alfred G. Vanderbilt's biography is a journey deep into America now in this last section of the Lusitania. Before I danced on the outside like a butterfly akin to the young man who was the social light of his class at Yale. Now, as he boards the Lusitania, I learn what it must have been poised on the brink of a catastrophic world war. The Gilded Age had abruptly come to an end and more pressing matters were on hand.</p>
<p>And a charismatic man would arise across the ocean. His appearance was far from pretty; in fact, he was quite portly but his heart was magnificent and roared like a lion. </p>
<p>I admire his spirit. </p>
<p>Winston Churchill:</p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><strong><span style="font-size:x-small;">"Never Give In"</span></strong></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:x-small;">       "This is the lesson: never give in, never give in, never, never, never, never—in nothing, great or small, large or petty—never give in except to convictions of honour and good sense. Never yield to force; never yield to the apparently overwhelming might of the enemy." (1941)</span></p>
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<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Today is the most important day in my life! Even when life is painful there is nothing more important than being present in the moment. Look for the lesson or the rainbow or anything good you can find!</p>
<p>Some days are harder than others and so just do the best you can and don't beat yourself up when you can't find the good for a moment, but remember it a choice and as soon as you have strength come back and look for the good.</p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin:0;"><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:&#34;">There are lessons we learn in the dark</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin:0;"><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:&#34;">When the pain closes in </span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin:0;"><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:&#34;">So close there’s no spark</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin:0;"><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:&#34;">There are days when we feel</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin:0;"><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:&#34;">There’s no hope for us here</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin:0;"><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:&#34;">And we can’t see our way</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin:0;"><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:&#34;">Or the next step to take</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin:0;"><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:&#34;">It’s the same for us all</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin:0;"><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:&#34;">It just takes different shapes</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin:0;"><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:&#34;"> </span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin:0;"><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:&#34;">Some people bend</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin:0;"><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:&#34;">And some people break</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin:0;"><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:&#34;">Some become real</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin:0;"><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:&#34;">Some become fake</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin:0;"><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:&#34;">Some learn to smile gently </span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin:0;"><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:&#34;">Some just learn to hate</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin:0;"><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:&#34;">What will you choose</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin:0;"><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:&#34;">Cause you choose your own fate</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin:0;"><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:&#34;"> </span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin:0;"><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:&#34;">Sometimes you get caught in the night</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin:0;"><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:&#34;">You stumble and fall</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin:0;"><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:&#34;">You just can’t find a light</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin:0;"><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:&#34;">So you sit in the darkness </span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin:0;"><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:&#34;">With no end in sight</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin:0;"><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:&#34;">Cause it’s too hard to pray</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin:0;"><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:&#34;">There are no words to express</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin:0;"><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:&#34;">So we wait for the morning </span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin:0;"><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:&#34;">And hope for the best</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin:0;"><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:&#34;"> </span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin:0;"><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:&#34;">So remember to bend</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin:0;"><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:&#34;">Whenever wind blows</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin:0;"><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:&#34;">Smile through your tears</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin:0;"><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:&#34;">However life flows</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin:0;"><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:&#34;">Be sweet and not bitter</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin:0;"><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:&#34;">Keep your heart pure</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin:0;"><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:&#34;">So the world will be better</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin:0;"><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:&#34;">Because love is the cure</span></p>
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<p class="MsoBodyText3" style="margin-bottom:3pt;"><span style="font-size:10.5pt;line-height:129%;font-family:&#34;">Do you know the meaning of your name? I found out the meaning of mine when I was about 10 years old and it was such a special thrill to me to find out that my name actually had meaning to me. </span></p>
<p class="MsoBodyText3" style="margin-bottom:3pt;"><span style="font-size:10.5pt;line-height:129%;font-family:&#34;">I was born Amy Carol Duvall, which means Beloved Song of the Valley. </span></p>
<p class="MsoBodyText3" style="margin-bottom:3pt;"><span style="font-size:10.5pt;line-height:129%;font-family:&#34;">I am a singer and it meant so much to me that the meaning of my name reflected my love of music — of course, I never thought of the full meaning of being a love song “of the Valley”.</span></p>
<p class="MsoBodyText3" style="margin-bottom:3pt;"><span style="font-size:10.5pt;line-height:129%;font-family:&#34;">Over the past twenty plus years of my life, as I have walked and lived in some very dark valleys, I have had much time to reflect on my name and the full meaning and implications of actually being the beloved song of the valley—I can’t help but think it was somehow not just chance that I received that name. </span></p>
<p class="MsoBodyText3" style="margin-bottom:3pt;"><span style="font-size:10.5pt;line-height:129%;font-family:&#34;">In 1990, at a very crossroads in my life, I began questioning my whole belief structure that I had been taught was true and I began to question. </span></p>
<p class="MsoBodyText3" style="margin-bottom:3pt;"><span style="font-size:10.5pt;line-height:129%;font-family:&#34;">I didn’t know who I was, or even wanted to be, but I knew for sure that I wanted peace, love, joy and happiness in my life and I<span>  </span>knew that I did not want to be an angry or bitter person. </span></p>
<p class="MsoBodyText3" style="margin-bottom:3pt;"><span style="font-size:10.5pt;line-height:129%;font-family:&#34;">I remember begging God to help me and to show me if He was real or not. </span></p>
<p class="MsoBodyText3" style="margin-bottom:3pt;"><span style="font-size:10.5pt;line-height:129%;font-family:&#34;">I believe He led me to the words of Jesus in the New Testament book of Matthew , chapters 5, 6, 7. </span></p>
<p class="MsoBodyText3" style="margin-bottom:3pt;"><span style="font-size:10.5pt;line-height:129%;font-family:&#34;">As I read through those chapters for the first time I felt excitement as the truth of the words became clear in my soul—this was what I was looking for and what I felt being a Christian should be! I read those three chapters every day for a month and they totally changed my life.</span></p>
<p class="MsoBodyText3" style="margin-bottom:3pt;"><span style="font-size:10.5pt;line-height:129%;font-family:&#34;">I would never tell anyone they need to follow the same path as me, or that I have things all figured out. </span></p>
<p class="MsoBodyText3" style="margin-bottom:3pt;"><span style="font-size:10.5pt;line-height:129%;font-family:&#34;">The more I learn the more open I become and the less dogmatic I become in telling others what they should do. I also become more and more aware of how much I don’t know about all of these mysteries. I am just telling you what changed my life and<span>  </span>has helped me. </span></p>
<p class="MsoBodyText3" style="margin-bottom:3pt;"><span style="font-size:10.5pt;line-height:129%;font-family:&#34;">I really believe that if anyone is<span>  </span>honestly searching for peace and happiness, sincerely seeks truth<span>  </span>asks for answers—they will find what they need. </span></p>
<p class="MsoBodyText3" style="margin-bottom:3pt;"><span style="font-size:10.5pt;line-height:129%;font-family:&#34;">Each persons life journey is personal. My hope is that each and every person will find for themselves peace, love, hope, goodness, gentleness, patience and joy along their way and that the path will lead them to learn and grow and become who they want to be.</span></p>
<p class="MsoBodyText3" style="margin-bottom:3pt;"><span style="font-size:10.5pt;line-height:129%;font-family:&#34;">My own valley experiences have taught me many things, and even though at times I have wondered if I would make it through some of the adventures I have experienced, I have found God’s promises to me to be absolutely true—ALWAYS. </span></p>
<p class="MsoBodyText3" style="margin-bottom:3pt;"><span style="font-size:10.5pt;line-height:129%;font-family:&#34;">Over these years, my faith has grown stronger and more determined and I have found perfect peace in my heart no matter what my circumstances in life happen to be. </span></p>
<p class="MsoBodyText3" style="margin-bottom:0;"><span style="font-size:10.5pt;line-height:129%;font-family:&#34;">I have so much to feel blessed and thankful </span></p>
<p class="MsoBodyText3" style="margin-bottom:0;"><span style="font-size:10.5pt;line-height:129%;font-family:&#34;">for, and I am so glad to be able to share my journey through this </span></p>
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<p class="MsoBodyText3" style="margin-bottom:3pt;"><span style="font-size:10.5pt;line-height:129%;font-family:&#34;">people I meet every day. I love to meet people with a smile that truly comes from God and a heart full of joy and peace. </span></p>
<p class="MsoBodyText3" style="margin-bottom:0;"><span style="font-size:10.5pt;line-height:129%;font-family:&#34;">I now feel, even more, that my name is a special gift to me and as I move into a new time in my life I believe that soon I may have a change to my name and the name of this newsletter to Songs from the Mountain!</span><span style="font-size:11pt;line-height:129%;font-family:&#34;"></span></p>
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<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Why is it that I will be having a great day - feeling very positive about my chances of survival and future prosperity - when one very small thing can turn it all upside down.</p>
<p>It doesn't take much as my chances and finances are in a fragile state and I have been so devasted, financially and in other ways, over the past 11 years that, even if nothing went wrong at all in the next year, it is still going to be extremely difficult to stabalize...and what are my chances of nothing going wrong? Slim to none I would say.</p>
<p>I have come so far and even as I experience the anxiety of my financial state and issues of the moment I try to keep myself focused on the big picture and picturing the moment when I can get past this....just like I have fought all the other hurdles in my life, I have to "eat this elephant one bite at a time".</p>
<p>The helplessness and frustration gets pretty high sometimes, mainly because I want to be independent and responsible and it is hard to be those when you don't have enough money to do it. You can't grow money on trees.</p>
<p>All I know is I am committed to the way, I am trusting that God, as always, has the way planned, He knows my steps and will keep me from falling, and I will not not stop fighting until AFTER I am dead AND buried!</p>
<p>I am not and will never be a victim and I will not victimize anyone else either.</p>
<p>I know that it may seem strange after what I have just written....but I do feel very successful and I know this last area of my life that is still out of whack will be corrected in it's time, and so I will seek to, once again, to put it into perspective and move my emotions back to the positive side!</p>
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