Despite what many women may think, blue balls is real. Please "continue reading" to enlighten yourselves.

On another note, the female equivalent of blue balls exists as well. I guess we could call it blue eggs!?

Stolen from Discovery Health:

Do you know the connection between blue balls and sex? Have you ever heard someone ask you, "What are blue balls?" "Blue balls" is a slang term referring to testicular aching that may occur when the blood that fills the vessels in a male's genital area during sexual arousal is not dissipated by orgasm.

When a man becomes sexually excited, the arteries carrying blood to the genital area enlarge, while the veins carrying blood from the genital area are more constricted than in the non-aroused state.

This uneven blood flow causes an increase in volume of blood trapped in the genitals and contributes to the penis becoming erect and the testicles becoming engorged with blood. During this process of vasocongestion the testicles increase in size 25-50 percent.

If the male reaches orgasm and ejaculates, the arteries and veins return to their normal size, the volume of blood in the genitals is reduced and the penis and testicles return to their usual size rather quickly.

If ejaculation does not occur there may be a lingering sensation of heaviness, aching, or discomfort in the testicles due to the continued vasocongestion. This unpleasant feeling has popularly been called blue balls, perhaps because of the bluish tint that appears when blood engorges the vessels in the testicles.

Blue Balls Describes a Temporary, Minor Pain

The condition usually does not last long and the level of pain associated with blue balls is usually minor and can be exaggerated. Most men have been socialized to ejaculate when they get an erection during sexual activity. Failure to ejaculate and to feel orgasm often adds frustration and disappointment to the reality of the physical sensation.

Men who believe that they should ejaculate every time they have an erection are likely to exert pressure on their partner to proceed with sex without taking her feelings into consideration.

Some men find that masturbation is a viable solution and are realizing that ejaculation is not a requirement in every sexual situation. This attitude allows both men and their partners to relax more and to learn that pleasure and meaning can exist without having to reach ejaculation and orgasm during every sexual encounter.

Men are not alone in experiencing the discomfort of unrelieved vasocongestion. Women's genitals also become engorged with blood during sexual arousal and, like their male counterparts, women can experience pelvic heaviness and aching if they do not reach orgasm.

I got into an interesting discussion recently with one of my readers regarding my last post on sex.  How to spice up your sex life.  His suggestion was to throw in a different sexual partner now and then even if you are married.

We then got into the discussion about how men are tired of women demanding "lovemaking".  That thought made me really think about how different men and women communicate and what is actually heard.

You see, here are the facts.  Women take longer to orgasm than men.  Their minds take a little longer to get switched on to the program too.  Even if switched on and horny, a woman takes 5 times longer to orgasm than a man does on average.  Sometimes it could take even longer than that.  It depends on the woman.  

For most men, ejaculation and orgasm is no great feat.  They get their satisfaction with every sexual encounter.  However, it doesn't work that way for women.  Only 30% of women can orgasm by intercourse alone.  Where does that leave the rest of the 70%?  Well, once the man is done, he's done for the most part.

The communication between men and women seems to be the issue here as our friend ThatDudeYouKnow pointed out.  What men are hearing from women is that they want to make "love" not just have sex.  What women are saying is that they want their needs met too (a.k.a. they want the man to make them orgasm too - not just keep the experience for themselves).

This communication problem is on both sides.  Women always want to pretty up words when they talk about sex.  Its the way we are.  It isn't like we don't like to be raunchy - its just that raunchy 9 times out of 10 leaves only one of us fully satisfied.  It might get our motors running, but that is a starter... we want dessert too!

This is from personal experience - I have had my fair share of experience when I was single, and most men talk about how much they love to give oral, but very few of them actually do it.  It is one of the biggest complaints from women that I hear.  The guys expect to get, and thats it, they are done.  Thanks, have a nice day!  

Hey, Im all about pleasing my man.  I actually enjoy those things.  But when it is always one sided it gets a bit stale.  And that is the problem.  The women feel like there is only one person having the sex, and that they are simply vessels to be used.

On the other hand, man don't like to have sex with a woman who simply lays back and thinks of "England" (or add your country here).  How boring and soul destroying is that.  There is no joy there, no enjoyment.  Might as well use a blow up doll.  

Lets talk about reality here.  No one really expects to have porn star sex.  If you do, then you are pretty well delusional.  It isn't even realistic for them, nor is it comfortable or enjoyable.  Thats a fantasy.  It doesn't really work that way.  Sex is really about two people pleasing each other and understanding that they are responsible to please themselves too along the way.

Ladies, he isn't responsible for YOUR sexual pleasure.  You know what makes you tick.  If you don't, I suggest you learn via masturbation.  How the heck is he gonna know, if you don't?  Buy yourself a vibe, or a sex toy.  Learn what makes you happy and incorporate it into your routine.  Taking an equal share of the responsibility in your own sexual happiness is the way to go.

You know, you don't have to insult your man with bringing out a sex toy.  You don't have to make him feel like he can't do his job to please you if you have one.  You can use it on him too to make him feel good.(And no, you don't have to use it anally to make him feel gay, there are plenty of vibes out there not shaped like man's genitals)  How much better is it for him if you learn to cum together?  To hear you scream for him?  Its a whole new ball game Ill tell ya.

Everyone wants to be wanted, loved, adored, pampered and cherished.  There are times we want to be sexual animals and simply want to F**K!  There is room for it all in life.  Don't you agree?  What are your thoughts?

* Tous nos témoignages ont fait l'objet d'un dépôt auprès d'un Huissier de Justice.

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de : Pr Tabway

Août 2008

Cher lecteur,

Tout d'abord je vous remercie de prendre le temps de lire les paragraghes ci-dessous et vous en souhaite une très bonne lecture.

Vous souffrez sans doute depuis plusieurs années déjà de ce fameux problème sexuel qui est l' éjaculation précoce.
Vous vous dites (ou vous pensez) que dans votre cas, faire l'amour, n'est pas vraiment une partie de plaisir, surtout lorsque vous pensez à votre partenaire. Que dit elle ? Que ressent-elle ? Lui parlez-vous ?

Certains d'entre vous ont de plus cette difficulté, cette incapacité supplémentaire qui les empêche de tenir jusqu'à la pénétration.
Ce serait se voiler la face de ne pas reconnaître le mal être que vous vivez en tant qu' éjaculateur précoce.

Impuissant face à ce problème, vous ne savez pas comment vous en sortir, peut être avez vous abandonné l'idée de trouver une issue, et cette situation est d'ores et déjà à vos yeux une fatalité.

Possiblement ressentez-vous de la colère, du mépris, très certainement de l'angoisse, de l'injustice, vous êtes probablement déçu, frustré, blessé dans votre orgueil, vous avez des sentiments de culpabilité, une certaine gène et vous êtes probablement dépressif. Vous vous posez certainement ces questions : Comment vais-je m'en sortir ? Pourquoi moi ? ... <a

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Le plus délicat est que vous ne donnez pas de plaisir à votre partenaire, et vous n'osez pas aborder le sujet avec elle ou avec vous-même,
Reconnaître soi-même ce problème est difficile. Il est possible que sur le plan psychologique vous soyez fragilisé.

Pour un homme, ne pas pouvoir faire jouir sa compagne est vécu comme une atteinte à son propre ego, à sa propre identité masculine.

Mes différentes études liées à la communication et à la pédagogie, en tant qu'enseignant, m' ont permis de rassembler des données fructueuses.
Ainsi je suis parvenu à solutionner le problème de l' éjaculation précoce chez plusieurs centaines de personnes de toutes catégories sociales, tout âge (jeunes, moins jeunes, retraités), et de toutes professions.

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Je me suis inscrit dans la problématique des troubles sexuels depuis maintenant 27 ans. J'ai eu beaucoup de chance de pouvoir travailler à l'étranger et, de ce fait, être en contact avec différentes couches sociales représentatives de plusieurs ethnies.
J'ai également interviewé différentes péripatéticiennnes, Stars du X, Taoïstes ... afin de recueillir de précieuses informations dont le seul but est d'enrichir continuellement mes connaissances et études sur le dit sujet.

Je puis vous assurer qu'à la base les problèmes restent les mêmes, on observe les mêmes défaillances, les mêmes problèmes psychologiques dus en grande partie à nos modes de vie socioculturels.

Peut on solutionner le problème définitivement ?

La réponse est OUI.

Vous ne le savez peut être pas encore, alors rassurez-vous, l'éducation ou la rééducation est à votre portée et ce, quelque soit votre rang social, votre âge, vous serez surpris par la rapidité de vos progrès.

Grâce à un entraînement adéquat vous arriverez parfaitement au contrôle de votre érection et de votre éjaculation, en quelques semaines seulement.

Aussi surprenant que cela puisse paraître 2 à 8 semaines en moyenne suffiront pour vous débarrasser définitivement de votre éjaculation précoce.

Un peu d'histoire

Durant la préhistoire, il semblerait que l'accouplement de l'homme se devait d'être de courte durée. Effectivement le coït était un laps de temps exposé et propice aux éventuels prédateurs de l'époque.

Même constat à l'heure actuelle pour les chevaux, pour la même raison. Tout ceci pour dire que votre éjaculation précoce n'est pas si surprenante et singulière que cela peut paraître.

De nos jours bien sûr, les choses ont bien changé et vous désirez prolonger l'acte sexuel, pour son plaisir et pour le bien-être qu'il vous procure, afin de le partarger avec votre partenaire et c'est bien normal.

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Mais voilà, le problème est que cela n'est pas magique. Une fois l'éjaculation précoce installée, vous ne pouvez pas faire ce qe vous souhaîtez et là se mettent en place de mauvais comportements, de fausses croyances qui finissent par briser bien des coeurs et bien des espoirs.

Vous vous retrouvez dans un cercle vicieux d'échecs, plus vous essayez de vous en sortir et plus l'éjaculation précoce s'installe, bref, les relations avec vous-même et les femmes peuvent devenir un obstacle.

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Des solutions pour l'éjaculation précoce existent

Les médicaments, somnifères, anti-dépresseurs ne traitent pas le problème de l'éjaculation précoce, sans compter les differents effets secondaires que vous encourrez en choisissant cette solution.

Crèmes et sprays qui désensibilisent votre pénis et qui désensibilisent également le vagin de votre partenaire, oû est le plaisir ? Sachez aussi que vous prenez un risque si vous décidez de vous même de prendre ces produits sans passer par le conseil d'un medecin, les compositions chimiques contenues dans ces crèmes et sprays NON conformes aux normes Françaises ou Européennes, peuvent déclencher des allergies très désagréables.
De plus imaginez vous prendre ces produits sans prévenir votre partenaire et qu'elle y soit allergique !!

Les Gélules proposées sur internet, inconnues du monde médical ! Un seul conseil, Ne jouez pas avec votre santé.

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There are five factors that make Ghusal Fardh (obligatory) on a person. The first three that we have enlisted are for both males and females, while the last two are only for females. These are:-

1. Wet dream causes Ghusal to become Fardh.
2. Sexual intercourse will make Ghusal Fardh on both persons.
3. Ejaculation caused due to lust makes Ghusal Fardh.
4. Ghusal is Fardh on women on termination of her menstrual periods.
5. Ghusal is also Fardh on a female after Nifaas (puerperal haemorrhage).

There are also three actions in Ghusal that are Fardh. These are:-

1. To rinse the mouth thoroughly.
2. To clean the nostrils thoroughly.
3. To wash the entire body in such a manner that not even an area equal to a strand of hair be left dry. If this is not done properly, then Ghusal will not be done.

Even though one may be in a pure state, there are certain instances where it is either desirable (Mustahab) of Sunnah to make Ghusal.

It is Sunnah to perform Ghusl for the following:-

1. For the Jummah Salaah.
2. For Eid Salaahs.
3. On the day of Arafaat (9th Zil-Hajj - Day of Hajj).
4. Before tying one's Ihraam.

It is Mustahab to perform Ghusl for the following:-

1. When waiting in Arafaat and Muzdalifa.
2. When visiting the Holy Haram (Kaaba).
3. Before visiting the Blessed Tomb of Sayyiduna Rasoolullah (sallal laahu alaihi wasallam).
4. Before entering Mina.
5. Before hitting the Jamraah.
6. On the eve of the Birth of Holy Prophet Muhammad  (sallal laahu alaihi wasallam).
7. For Lailatul Qadr.
8. For  Lailatul Baraat.
9. For Lailatul Me'raaj.
10. On the eve of Eid.
11. On the eve of Arafaah.
12. On the eve and day of Aashurah  (10th Muharram).
13. Before wearing new clothes.
14. Before making Tauba (repenting) from one's sins.
15. For Salaatul Istisqaa.
16. For Namaaz at the time of eclipse.
17. Before teaching the Holy Quran and Ahadith.
18. After bathing the deceased.
19. After coming out of an unconscious state.
20. Before and after a journey.
21. After Istihaaza (Sickness of women).
22. On recovering from illness.
23. At the time of fear.
24. During a storm.
25. Before a wedding or any happy occasion.
26. When visiting Holy Places such as Mazaars, etc.
27. When going to meet a learned Scholar of Islam.

With the EXCEPTION of the above mentioned, it is also a good habit to bathe twice daily, in the morning on awakening and at night before going to bed.

The Sunnah method of Ghusal: One should first make Niyyah in the heart of Ghusal to gain purification from impurities. Both hands should then be washed till the wrist. The pubic areas should then be washed thoroughly removing any impurities. Impurities on any other portion of the body should be washed. One should then perform Wudhu. The entire body should then be washed thoroughly. Water must then be poured thrice over the right shoulder, then thrice over the left shoulder, thrice over the head, and then thrice over the entire body. One must make sure that the water passes over the body properly not leaving any dry spots. Thereafter, it is preferable for the feet to be washed after coming out of the bathroom. After making Ghusal in this way, one may read the Holy Quran or perform Salaah. There is no need to repeat Wudhu unless Wudhu becomes nullified (breaks). When making Ghusal, one is not allowed to read anything or talk unnecessarily.

Dear Friends! We should be clean and pure at all times, for none knows when death will come. May Almighty Allah keep us amongst the pure. Aameen.

Source: http://www.yanabi.com/activeweb.cfm?a_id=937

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Sex makes your life more happy and rejuvenating. Sex has many good effects on your health. Sex improves your immunity against the harmful diseases. During sex the thousands of calories are burnt which avoids the gain of excess of fat in the body. Latest discovery also made us aware that more sex avoids erectile dysfunction.

A study was conducted to check the effect of age on the men sexuality. The study revealed that the sexual urge in the men decreases as the age increases. The factors which are responsible for the reduced sexual urge are as follows:

1. Erectile Dysfunction

Erectile dysfunction is main cause of loss of sexual urge in men. When the age increases you get prone to many diseases as a result of which you can not get the hard and long-lasting erections. Erectile dysfunction can be treated with generic drugs like kamagra, Caverta, Apcalis, Zenegra, etc. Please try these generic drugs and get back your sexual pleasure.

2. Deficiency of Testosterone.

Testosterone in the men body starts decreasing after the age of 30. Testosterone is responsible for the sexual characteristics in men. As the testosterone level decreases you start losing interest in the sex and certainly here also age plays an important role in men sexuality.

3. Uninterested Partner.

Sometimes old men are also interested in sex but they are given no importance by their partners because they lose the erection very fast and they are not found to be attractive by their female partners.

4. Diabetes

Diabetes is one of common disease found in the middle age and men. Diabetes inhibits the production of the cyclic guanosine monophoshate which is responsible for the relaxation of the penile muscles. As a result less amount of blood is supplied to the penis and you can not get the erection.

5. Late erections and Force of Ejaculation Decreases

In older age men it may take longer to get an erection, for some men the erections may not feel the same as they have in the past. There may also be changes in the ejaculation which decreases in the ejaculation or even sometimes nothing is ejaculated. Some more factors like increase in weight, heart diseases, blood pressure, etc also plays a significant role in the decrease of sexual urge in respect to the age.

If you r want to last longer, begin by taking deep and relaxed breaths will before intercourse has even begun. I can promise that if you do this the next time you have sex you will last longer in bed. It may be 20 seconds longer, it may be 40 minutes. Either way it will get you lasting longer in bed, and the more you work on it, the more benefit you will get out of it.... This is even more so true when combined with the other great techniques discussed on this grat how to last longer in bed guide.

for now I will show a great way to last longer in bed by correcting your breathing during sex. The great thing about fixing this up, is that it makes an sizable and instant impact and will let you last a fair bit longer tonight.

It’s so natural to breathe deeply and in a relaxed way during sex yet it’s no surprise to learn that 99% of men who have trouble lasting in bed don't do. You’re about to learn just how to last longer in bed by breathing correctly.

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More on this tomorrow.

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