सुनता हैं खुदा सबकी  , किसी किसी को दुआ की ज़रूरत नहीं होती |
बसा करते हैं यादों के मंदिर में ,उन्हे मकान की ज़रूरत नहीं होती |
तुम तो  आवाज़ से पहचान लेते हो ,
तेरे आगे बेवजह मुस्कुराने की ज़रूरत नहीं होती |

खुशियाँ लिए बैठे रहते हैं ,पर रोने के लिए बहाने की ज़रूरत नहीं होती |
क्या बात हैं इस रिश्ते में ,दोस्त के मिलने पर जमाने की ज़रूरत नहीं होती |
जिंदगी में ही जो मरते हैं हर पल के साथ,
उन्हे मौत से मिल के मरने की ज़रूरत नहीं होती |

एहसास आँखो से बात करते  तो ,दीप को कविता की ज़रूरत नहीं होती | नाव सुरक्षित हैं किनारे पर ,पर इसे लहरो से लड़ना सीखने की ज़रूरत नहीं होती |
बनाने  वाला जब खुदा है तो मिट नहीं सकते ,
जिसे रोशन करती हैं हवा , उस दीप को बचाने की ज़रूरत नहीं होती |

जो अपनी होकर भी , बुरी लगे , एक ऎसी ही अजीब दुविधा हूँ मैं ,

अशोक के गर्म खून सी, बौध्द शान्ति में पली , गुमनाम संगमित्रा हूँ मैं ,

शब्द से निर्मित हूँ , शब्द अन्त है मेरा ,

मुक्त छोड दो तो खो जाती हूँ , हर बार बाधंनी जो पडे , एक ऎसी भुमिका हुँ मैं ।

हुनर जिसका भीड में नजर आता है , वो एक छोटी सी कणिका हूँ मैं ।

जिसके दामन में अश्क गिर के सोते है ,शायद ऎसी एक अंकिता हूँ मैं ।

जिन्दगी के  रंगो से भरी , जख्मो से हर बार सजी ,

खुद से मिल खुद खो जाने वाली  , एक अनजान चित्रा हूँ मैं ।

भीड़ में भी जब कोई तुम्हें तन्हा दिखाई दे ,
सबके साथ होकर भी जब कोई अकेला दिखाई दे |
हँसते ही जिसके दिखे एक समंदर सा दर्द का ,
देख जिसे लगे इंतज़ार में एक बुत अपने खुदा के ,
जिसकी सोच समझ जैसे खोई सी लगे ,
जिसकी  बातों से ख़ुद तेरी तस्वीर बने ,
बस बिना खोए एक भी पल उसे ,
मेरा नाम लेके मिल लेना ,
वो मैं ना भी हुआ तो कोई ग़म नहीं ,
वो मेरे जैसा हो जाएगा ,
मैं ना सही कोई तो तुम्हे मिल जाएगा |
और अगर याद मेरा नाम भी तब ना आए ,
तो  बस अपने नाम से पुकार लेना उसे ,
यक़ीन करो वो मैं हुआ तो एक पल में 
पहचान लूँगा , तुम्हे फिर तुमसे माँग लूँगा |

तुम ख़्यालो में हमको बुलाया करो  ,
हम हक़ीकत में एक दिन चले आएगे,

यूँ तुम बिन तो ख़ामोश आवाज़ है ,
तुम से हमको हैं करनी कई बातें पर ,
तुम हमे अपने किस्से सुनाया करो ,
हम तुम्हारे ही क़िस्सों में चले आएगे |

खड़े हैं हर मोड़ पे मुंतजिर से हम ,
कभी तुम जो गुजरो किसी मोड़ से ,
अपनी नज़रो से हर और देखा करो ,
हम तुम्हे वही पे कही  नज़र आएगे |

कभी जब लगे तुम को तन्हाई सी ,
या कही पे कभी सुकून ना मिले ,
तुम हमे नाम लेके पुकारा करो ,
हम उसी वक़्त मिलने चले आएगे |

कभी लड़खड़ाते क़दमो से रुक ने लगो ,
तुम मुझे याद कर अपना सहारा बनो ,
और हमसफर हमे बुलाया करो ,
हम साथ  तुम्हारा  देने चले आएगे |

कभी जब परेशान दुनिया करे ,
या कोई बात तुम्हे सताया करे ,
बेवजह तुम यूँही मुस्कुराया करो ,
हम हँसी तेरी सुन के चले आएगे |

ख़ामोशी में जब लगे घड़ी ग़ुज़ने ,
अंधेरो में जब डूब जाए जंहा ,
तुम अपने घर में "दीप" जलाया करो ,
हम तुन्हे उसमे ही रोशन नज़र आएगे |

हूँ मदहोश या मैं दीवाना हूँ तेरा ,
तुझे हर तरफ़ हर घड़ी पा रहा हूँ |

भटकता रहा मैं रोशनी में भी लेकिन 
अंधेरो में भी अब तुझे पा रहा हूँ |

यूँ चल तो रहा हूँ मगर ना ख़बर हैं ,
मैं कैसे कहाँ और किधर जा रहा हूँ |

मगर इस यकीं पे मैं चल तो रहा हूँ ,
कि हो ना हो तेरे क़रीब आ रहा हूँ |

तुझे पाके तुझको ही मांगता हूँ ,
तेरी दुआ मैं भी चला आ रहा हूँ |

लिखें हैं जो मैने नहीं गीत मेरे ,
तेरी धड़कानो को बस गा रहा हूँ |

वहाँ जागता हैं रातों को तू भी ,
बन के दीप मैं भी जले जा रहा हूँ 

 ऐसी कशीश है तुझमें ,खिची चली आती हूँ
साथ मेरे मन की तरंगे, तुमसे बाटने  लाती हूँ |

तुमसे मेरा रिश्ता है , मेरे बचपन सा सुहाना
तेरे रंगरूप से मोहित मैं,सुनती हूँ तेरा तराना |

फ़िज़ाओं का रंग बदले,मौसम भी बदलता रेहता
जब तूमपे बहार सजती,मेरा रोम रोम है खिलता |

ग्रीष्म ऋतु में आते हो,सावन की ख़ुशी दे जाते हो
जहाँ भी जाती हूँ मैं,मेरे मन में समाए होते हो |

ना जानू तुम कौन हो मेरे,प्रियतम या सखा हो
बेनाम ही रेहने दो ये रिश्ता,नाम में क्या रखा है |

इतना समझती हूँ मैं,बरसों का अपना अफ़साना
आउ जब भी तेरी छाया में,हरदम प्यार के फूल बरसाना |

ज़िंदगी की  मुश्किल राहों में , तेरे फूल चुन चुन लाती हूँ
तेरे संग होने के एहसास से ही,कितना सुकून पाती हूँ |

लालहरे फूलपन्नो की चुनरी से,तेरा रूप ग़ज़ब का निखरता है
मेरे दिल के आँगन में आज भी, वो गुलमोहर बिखरता  है |

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A true friend then, is the one who takes us closer to Allah's compassion and grace.

Making and becoming friends is inherent in man's nature. This process of companionship commences right from the early stages of man's life and continues till his death. Islam as explained before, is in complete harmony with man's nature. Hence, it has dealt with this topic in some detail.

Friends are by no means only a means for 'time-pass' or entertainment. Indeed friendship is more profound than that. Friendship and companionship are inseparable aspects of an individual's life. A friend's character and personality will rub off on that individual. It is for this reason that it is said, 'A man is known by the company he keeps.' Hence Islam, while emphasising the need for companionship, also clearly outlines the qualities of a true friend.

The Holy Imams (a.s.) were at pains to explain the etiquette and decorum of true friendship. Hazrat Ali (a.s.) observes,

'He indeed is unfortunate who does not have any friends, but worse is the one who has friends, but loses them.'
(Behaarul Anwaar, vol. 73 p.278)

Imam Ali Reza (a.s.) elucidates,
'One who takes up a friend to please Allah, has reserved for himself a house in Paradise.'
(Amaalie Tusi vol. 1 p. 82)

'Acquire more and more friends, because on the Day of Judgement each believer shall exercise his right of intercession (shafa'at).' (Mizaanul Hikmah vol. 3)

The Messenger of Allah (s.a.w.s.) narrates,
'After the advent of Islam, the greatest benefit to a Muslim is in the guise of that friend he has selected, only to please Allah.'
(Mizaanul Hikmah). Books of ethics and traditions abound with such traditions.

Hazrat Ali (a.s.) narrates,
'Any friendship and companionship that is not for Allah's pleasure, is deviation and to rely on such ties (of friendship) is impossible .' (Ibid.).

The Holy Quran expounds further,
'The friends shall on that day (of judgment) be enemies of each other except those who guard against evil.'(Zukhruf : 67).

One who seeks friendship for worldly benefits, will find himself deprived (Mizanul Hikmah).

A lot of people establish their bonds of friendship and enmity based on the gain they are likely to accrue on a personal level. That is, if a person has some utility, he qualifies as a friend, else he is an enemy. However, that should never be the benchmark for us. For the sake of Imame Zamana (a.t.f.s.), may Allah grant us the taufeeq to seek friends only for His pleasure and satisfaction.

Imam Baqir (a.s.) narrates from his father who said,
"O my son don't befriend five types of people:
(a) Don't befriend a liar. For a liar is like a mirage. He shows the distant as near and the near as distant. He will always deceive you and trouble you.

(b) Don't befriend a transgressor. For he will forsake you for a paltry sum and make your sins appear very alluring to you. He will make you a victim of Allah's chastisement through his petty sins and take you farther away from His obedience and satisfaction. He will make Allah's worship appear as His disobedience, and His disobedience as His worship. He will drag you along with himself in the fire of hell.

(c) Never befriend a miser. For in your time of need and distress, he will withhold his wealth from you, while he is in a position to assist you. (He values his wealth more than anything else. And to that end he is prepared to forsake even his friends)

(d) Do not befriend a fool. For (in his foolishness) he will harm you while he intends to help you. (That is why it is said, 'A shrewd enemy is better than a foolish friend')

(e) Don't befriend the one who breaks relations (with his relatives). For, such a person has been cursed in the Quran in three places. He is engrossed in his own affairs with scant regard for others. (Friendship with such a person will eventually lead the individual towards sins and disobedience of Allah)"

Quran discusses the believers in the following manner,

The Holy Quran says,
"The men and women from among the hypocrites are friends of each other, and they invite the people towards sin and transgression, and dissuade them from goodness and virtue. They withhold their wealth from charity, and refrain from spending in the way of Allah. Indeed, they have forgotten Allah and Allah too has forgotten them. Verily these hypocrites are transgressors and immoral.'

''The men and women from among the believers are friends of each other. They call the people towards goodness and piety and abstain from evil and transgression. They uphold the prayer, pay the poor-rate (zakaat) and obey Allah and His Prophet (s.a.w.s.). Indeed, these are the ones for whom Allah shall soon manifest His mercy and grace. Verily Allah is all-powerful, and the most wise."
(Ale Imran : 71)

Imam Sadiq (a.s.) narrates, 'Friendship entails certain trusts and duties. Then the one who observes these obligations is a true friend and the one who breaches this trust is unworthy of friendship. These obligations are as follows;

1. He should be the same outside as he is inside. In other words, he should not have a dual personality. (In this age however, we often come across people who are exceptionally humble and modest on the outside, with little, if any humility, on the inside)

2. He will consider your virtues as his virtues and your misdeeds as his misdeeds. (In other words your virtues will cheer him and your faults will grieve him. God forbid, he must not feel relieved after observing some vice in you, and take solace from the fact that he himself is above that vice.)

3. If he acquires a position of power and authority, it must not bring about a drastic change in his attitude. In other words, prosperity must not transform the individual adversely. (There are some people who make the best of friends in adversity. But a positive change in their financial condition, reveals a dark, hitherto unknown side of their personality. On the other hand we see some people who make good friends in prosperity, but misfortune transforms them, disclosing their fickleness.)

4. He must give his friendship (with you) priority over all his worldly possessions. In other words in times of adversity, he must be willing to give his all to redeem you.

5. He must never leave you alone in times of misfortune and distress.
(Behaarul Anwaar vol. 74 p.173)

Imam Sadiq (a.s.) remarks,
'My best friend is the one who gifts me my weaknesses and shortcomings.'
(Behaarul Anwaar, vol. 74 p. 282)

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बेख़बर जिंदगी से जी रहे थे के तुम आ गये |
कहुँ कैसे मरे जा रहे थे के तुम आ गये |

हे मजिंल कहाँ और राहें ये कैसी ,
यूँ ही बेवजह चले जा रहे थे के तुम आ गये |

कभी तो सुनू  हाल-ए-दिल तुझसे तेरा ,
शोर-ए-दुनिया सुने जा रहे थे के तुम आ गये |

मुझे मुस्कुराने की आदत नहीं थी ,
बेसबब  हम रोए जा रहे थे के तुम आ गये |

थे टूटे हुए पर , थे टूटे हुए ,
पर , ना बिखर पा रहे थे के तुम आ गये |

थी वीरान दुनिया ख्वाबो की मेरी ,
ख्यालो में भी थे खामोशी के साये ,के तुम आ गये |

जो सर को झुका लूँ ,लगे सामने तुम ,
जो आँखे करू बंद , नज़र आए तुम ,
तुम ही ये बताओ के तुम कौन हो ?
खुद ही से तेरी बातें किए जा रहे के तुम आ गये |

Ek baat meri samjh me nahi aati hai
nazar tumara kyun chappalon pe jati hai
kabhi kisi ne sandle se mohar lagaya hoga gaal pe
tabhi pehle nazar sndle ki strength parakhti hai.
pls don't mind.

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Raaste the anjaan phir bhi hum talaash mein unki nikal pade
Unki aankhon ki kashish mein hum kheenche chal pade
Maloom chala wo kaun si hi dagar jispe hum the nike
Jab usse patane ke chakkar mein humein joote chappal pade

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Ho chuki hai raat bahot ab so bhi jaayeye
Jo hai dil ke kareeb uske kahayalon mein bhi kho jaayeye
Kar raha hoga koi intezaar aapka
Khawabon mein hi sahi mil to aayeye

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Ummid ki Imarat deh gayi,
Aankhon se aansu ki nadi beh gayi,
Tumhaari kya izzat reh gayi,
Jab padosi ki ladki tumhe bhaiyya keh gayi!!!
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Hum hai raahi pyar ke
Humse kuch naa boliye
Humko jahan khatiya mili
Hum wonhi pe soliye

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Sapne dekho to use apna banalo,
Ya phir usme kho jao,
Dost banao to use apna banalo,
Ya usme kho jao,
Agar kuch bhi nahin to phir,

 takiya lo aur so jao..............Gud Nite

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Pyr ki shruwat koobsurat dosti se huyi thi Dil mei na janne kab bas gaya tu Akele chalte chalte rasthe kat nahi rahe the Na janne saath kab chal pada tu tere dil ki baat ankho se samjah lu na jane kab to dadkhano mei basne laga lu tu phele dost tha, phir pyr kya na janne Zindagi kab bangaya tu… ---------------------------------------------------------------------- Woh hamara imtihan kya legi, milayegi nazron se nazar to nazar jhuka legi. Use meri kabar pr diya jalane ko mat kehna, wo naadan hai dosto apna HAATH jala legi. ----------------------------------------------------------------------

Dekar hath dosti ka Vaapas liya nahi jata,
is naazuk dosti ko zakhm diya nahi jata.
Sach much ye duniya badi zalim hai,
SMS sasta hai fir b Aapse kiya nahi jata.

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Hamari aapki dosti bilkul FIX hai,
Love emotion sadness sab kuch MIX hai,
Hum to apko na bhulenge kabhi,
Aap bhul n jaye bus thoda RISsK hai.

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Being ur frend is my basic necessity.
Missin U is my habit.
Fightin wit U is my timepass.
Bt Forgettin U is like
Taking My Life Out Of Me.

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Har baat samjhane k liye nahi hoti,
Zindagi hamesha paane ke liye nhi hoti.
Yaad to aksar aati hai hume aapki,
Par har yaad jatane ke liye nhi hoti.

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Geele kaagaj ki tarah hai zindagi apni,
Koi jalaata b nahi aur bahata b nahi,
Is kadar akeld hai raahon me dil ki,
Koi sataata b nahi aur manaata b nahi.
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Nighaon me suna pan, dil b viraan hai,
mere mehboob kya yahi pyar ka inaam hai,
Tumne chaha aur raat din pooja maine,
Mujhpar laga ye bewafai ka Iljaam hai
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Fir na  simtegi agar dosti bikhar jayegi,
Zindagi zulf nahi jo fir se sawar jayegi,
Jo khushi de tumhe thaam lo daaman uska,
Zindagi roke nahi has k gujar jayegi.
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Par ab ye aalum hai ki ek pal aur jeeya nahi jaatta
Battain jab hum kiya karte the
Ruhh hamari khush hoti thi
Par aaj ye aalum hai ki
Baat hum kar nahi sakte aur dur hum reh nahi saket.

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