Safed (pronounced Tzfat in Hebrew) is a city in the Northern District of Israel and it is one of Judaism's Four Holy Cities, along with Jerusalem, Tiberias and Hebron. Safed is the birth town of Kabbalah (Jewish mysticism) and still is a center for Kabbalah students and followers. The Jewish community of Safed started growing in the 15^th century and Rabbi Issac Luria ("HaAri" - the lion) - Kabbalah's foremost advocate - came to live and teach here in 1569. Another famous Jewish scholar who lived here is Rabbi Joseph Caro, author of the "Shulchan Aruch", and in the local synagogue named after him you will find over 400 years old Torah scrolls.   

Located in the mountains of the Galilee, Safed is the highest city in Israel (850 m) and thus enjoys a spectacular view of the Lower Galilee, Meiron Mountain, the Hermon Mountain and the Sea of Galilee. If not for anything else - the vista - is a good enough reason to stop by Safed. 

Safed is known for its relaxing mountainous atmosphere and for its artists' quarter. Walking through the narrow alleyways of the artist's district is a special experience - the galleries are small and intimate and the local population is kindhearted and inviting. It seems that the people of Safed live in a time zone of their own. They somehow find the time to have tea or coffee in the garden with perfect strangers touring through their town, and they find pleasure in getting to know their guests.

Safed offers a perfect escape from the intensive and material rat-race, it is so peaceful and calming that one can very easily find herself wanting to meditate...

Spiritual Safed is all about Relaxing, Meditating, Landscape and Kabbalah

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Unendlich riesige Dekolletées.

Es gibt sie wirklich, die Ausschnitte, aus denen alles herauszufallen droht. Gefährlich wankt es, schwappt und man meint, die Glocken läuten zu hören wann immer sie ihr Schritttempo erhöhen. Hätte ich es nicht mit eigenen Augen gesehen, ich hätte es für eine Mär aus dem Jerry Springer - Universum gehalten.

Was man diesen Frauen mal sagen sollte, ist, dass Männer das in der Form garnicht sehen wollen. "Kannst du nicht mal zu Xy gehen und ihr sagen, dass sie nicht immer so enge/ausgeschnittene/betonte Oberteile anziehen soll? Mir ist das peinlich wenn ich da hinkucke..." war sicher nicht die Reaktion, die frau mit ihren Rundungen provozieren wollte. Jetzt bin ich ja vor der Hütte nicht so massv beholzt, dass ich mich diesem Problem je hätte stellen müssen, aber ich mach das Gedankenspiel mal mit.

Aus Sicht der Frau gibt es eine Reihe guter Gründe, seine Auslage offen vor sich her zu tragen. Die Männer gucken hin, weniger begüterte Frauen sind womöglich neidisch, man kann mit den hinguckenden Männern das ein oder andere Spielchen spielen ("Sieh dir an was du nieeeee kriegen wirst!!!"), alles im Sinne des eigenen Selbstbewusstseins, was einen Push(up) erfahren dürfte.

Aus Sicht eines Mannes...

Also da haben wir natürlich einerseits die sabbernden Deppen die sich direkt drankletten und sofort vom Geläut betäubt nur noch an das mammale Wohlgefühl von Früher denken...
Und wir haben die, die sich von der geballten Weiblichkeit ein bisschen überfordert fühlen. Brüste. Schön. Darf ich meinen Fokus jetz woanders hin verle....nein? ok... *resignier*

Männer kucken da nunmal hin. Und es ist ihnen unter Umständen garnicht mal so angenehm, wie man vielleicht meint. Manche schämen sich richtig dafür und werden so hilflos, dass sie andere Frauen bitten, "das""wegzumachen".

Und das dürfte das letzte sein, was frau eigentlich mit ihrem Outfit bewirken wollte.
Eigentlich ist das... offen gestanden... ziemlich ziemlich peinlich.

Schon allein deshalb weil man aus dieser Halluzination, der Mann an sich wolle das eigene Milchgeschäft auf Teufelkommraus sehen, aufgeweckt wird. Will er nämlich nicht.
In seiner eigenen Weiblichkeit so zurückgewiesen zu werden, ist ultra bitter.

Aber!

Die Brustpartie an sich ist ja jetzt nicht so abstoßend, dass man sie verstecken müsste, auch wenn sie vielleicht über dem Durchschnitt liegt in Sachen Größe.

Da kommt jetzt mein Plädoyer für die Amica ins Spiel. Die hat nämlich ausgesprochen, was ich im Puncto Verpackungskunst oberhalb des Bauchnabels denke.

"Nichts mögen Männer aber weniger, als zwangsweise in Peeping-Toms verwandelt zu werden. Zudem gilt der Anblick sekundärer Geschlechtsmerkmale als Privileg einer Partnerschaft und wird daher auch ungern geteilt." schreibt's.

Und bitte, nehmt's euch zu Herzen.

Auf dass sowas hier der Vergangenheit angehören möge:

"Sagen Sie mal, haben Sie Haare auf der Brust?"

"Nein!!"

"Dann ist Ihr Kleid wohl zu tief ausgeschnitten..."

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I honestly can't remember all the details with Nok. We spent another 2 or 3 nights togteher but inside my heart I knew that I did not intend anymore to invite her to Europe or come back to visit her. She never explained to me her behavior and was generally still reluctant to cuddle at night or try new things in bed. But my Thailand vacation still had a special female reward in store for me:

One night I also spent without Nok for some reason. Since I stayed in a hotel near Khaosan Road at that time and spent the evening drinking by myself in the Gulliver's and the Lava Club. At closing time of most of the Khaosan clubs around 1 a.m. I strolled along the road looking for an after hour place and randomly asked two girls that walked towards me if they knew a place to go at this time of the night. They turned out to be quite talkative and funny and took me to a beer bar mainly occupied by Thai guys and one pool table in the middle. We drank beer together and got to know each other better.

One "girl" was about 40 years old, the other one exactly 20, about 157cm tall and had huge natural D-cup breasts attached to a very slim body. Only her butt was as flat as the pool table - but hey, who is perfect? The three of us ended up walking down Kaosan Road again and me proposing to the young girl, Wan, to take her back to my hotel. Her older friend made a joke about "how much", but since both bursted out in laughter, it was obviously not meant serious.

Back in the hotel: Wan had gorgeous 100% natural D-Cup breasts with a beautiful round shape, standing upright from her young 20-year old body. We started to make out but soon found out that neither her nor me had any condoms with us. She started to suck me while I was lying on my back and later switched to sit on top of me sticking her pussy in my face wanting me to lick her... which I did. After another 69 position we ended up sleeping without me having reached the final goal of an orgasm but still happy to be with such a cute and lovely girl.

The next morning she said she has a class for Graphic Design at 10.30 a.m and went to the shower. I usually always give some money to a Thaigirl, even if she does not ask for it. I would feel bad if I wouldn't. In her case I was curious to know if she would really leave without mentioning any money. So I secretly opened her purse when she was showering and put a 1000 Baht note inside. I then saw some small sheet of paper inside and took a closer look at them: They were obviously text messges from her mobile phone she had written down on those small sheets.. maybe out of lack of memory on her mobile phone? It were several messages from seemingly one single man, who said the usual stuff about " I love you", "I miss you", "Hope to see you soon again", "It was a wodnerful time with you"... the usual love-blah-blah. I smiled and put everything back in order.

Well she left happily after giving me her phone number and left.... At that point for her it was a free fuck.. well, mentally for me too :D I love Thailand... Prior to a visit in 2006 I wrote Wan several text messages, some of which she replied, but later she didn't pick up her phone and kept silent. I never saw her again. But taking into account all the trouble and dissatisfaction I had with Nok, Wan made this stay more special to me and I always like to think back at her. She was funny, spoke good English and had a great body. I forgive myself for not coming when we had sex.

Wan, thank you for your company, wish you all the best for your future.

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In other Spanx related news, I loved this post about a man who decided to figure out what all the fuss is about. . .

-3D

I wore a minimizer yesterday and was really pleased with the way it toned down my big boobs. As much as I love them, sometimes I don't want my breasts to be the focus point of my outfit.

Here's a shot of me wearing a Chantelle minimizer yesterday. Maybe I'm kidding myself but I actually think I could pass for a D here.

Does anyone have any great minimizer recommendations?

-3D