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11/2/07 TFTD ~ On Stopping the Pain
Know what hurts and stop the pain. ~ Melody Beattie When I first started in therapy, my therapist said I wouldn’t move if someone hit me with a board. I didn’t know why that was so weird.… more »
Getting Past Your Past
11/2/07 TFTD ~ On Stopping the Pain
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susangpyp wrote 8 months ago: Know what hurts and stop the pain. ~ Melody Beattie When I first started in therapy, my therapist sa … more »
10/14 TFTD ~ Why Are They So Much Better Than Me?
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susangpyp wrote 9 months ago: An affair holds up a vanity mirror; it gives a rosy glow to the way you see yourself. By contrast, t … more »
9/19 TFTD ~ More On Rejection
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susangpyp wrote 10 months ago: My earliest memory is realizing that the family I lived with wasn’t “my” family an … more »
9/3 TFTD ~ On Being A Victim
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susangpyp wrote 10 months ago: GPYP is a program of self-empowerment no matter where you come from or what has happened to you. Th … more »
8/29 On Being Your Own Therapist
susangpyp wrote 11 months ago: I am a fervant believer in support systems, friends, support groups, 12 step programs, individual th … more »
7/3 TFTD ~ More on "No Contact"
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susangpyp wrote 1 year ago: The key to recovery is to stop practicing the addiction first and then start talking about it, not t … more »
The Post-Breakup No-No List
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susangpyp wrote 1 year ago: More on No-Nos If you’re trying to get over a breakup there are things you SHOULD be doing: y … more »
6/21 TFTD ~ On Searching
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susangpyp wrote 1 year ago: Pining is the subjective and emotional component of urge to search for the lost object. ~ Colin Mur … more »
6/19 TFTD ~ Progress Not Perfection
susangpyp wrote 1 year ago: Then, without realizing it, you try to improve yourself at the start of each new day; of course, you … more »
6/11 TFTD ~ On Knowing What You Stand For
susangpyp wrote 1 year ago: It’s not hard to make decisions when you know what your values are. ~ Roy Disney If you don … more »
5/19 TFTD ~ On Difficult People
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susangpyp wrote 1 year ago: The capacity for getting along with our neighbor depends to a large extent on the capacity for getti … more »
5/6 TFTD ~ On "My Type"
susangpyp wrote 1 year ago: “If you have always done it that way, it is probably wrong.” ~ Charles Kettering. … more »
5/5 TFTD ~ On Fear
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susangpyp wrote 1 year ago: I’m not afraid of storms, for I’m learning how to sail my ship. ~ Louisa May Alcott One … more »
4/22 TFTD ~ On People Pleasing
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susangpyp wrote 1 year ago: There just isn’t any pleasing some people. The trick is to stop trying. ~Robert Mitchum Someti … more »
4/19 TFTD ~ More on Action
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susangpyp wrote 1 year ago: Do not say things. What you are stands over you the while, and thunders, so that I cannot hear what … more »
3/21 TFTD ~ On Learning
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susangpyp wrote 1 year ago: Your pain is the breaking of the shell that encloses your understanding. ~ Kahlil Gibran Sometimes … more »
3/17 TFTD ~ On Trying to Please Others
susangpyp wrote 1 year ago: I cannot give you the formula for success, but I can give you the formula for failure–which is … more »
3/12 TFTD ~ More on Boundaries
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susangpyp wrote 1 year ago: Setting and sticking to reasonable, healthy limits in all our relationships is a prerequisite to lov … more »
3/4 TFTD ~ More On Dancing Out of Control
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susangpyp wrote 1 year ago: When she is starved, a woman will take any substitutes offered, including those that, like placebos, … more »
